Gals: How did you learn to stroke and suck a cock? Did some thoughtful guy give you instructions? Were you given gentle corrections? Did you learn from watching porn?
I remember a gal who thought she was supposed to squeeze rhythmically, so I showed her that, while the squeezing was nice, a nice up-and-down motion without too tight a squeeze would work better.
Guys: How did you learn to caress and lick a clit?
I learned by watching movies and then by getting feedback from those I tried it on. Most women seem to absolutely love having their clit licked, but manual stimulation can be a little touch-and-go. You don't want to rush it, and you want to make sure you have sufficient lubrication. A gradual, teasing approach sometimes seems to work best. After she has one or two orgasms, I like to move in with the tongue and then, when she indicates she's ready, with the cock. |