man dont worry bout that shit, if u want the girl go after her, believe me I been in yo situation, except I was shy as damn groundhog, but I figured out once I got older, most girls dont say no when u come at em wit confidence, cockiness maybe but not confidence, just go fo it, and even if she is wit some friends, just pull er to the side side and rap wit her fo a sec, talk to her if u dont know what I mean, and bout her havin sex, truth is pretty much every girl and guy by the time they reach ya age they aint virgins, I say go fo it man, now dont roll up to her wit ya head hangin down mubling and stutterin, just go to her like u talkin to a friend that u been knowing fo years, and another key, try to invite a friend or someone so she can bring a close friend, cause no girl nowdays wants to jus go out wit a dude by theirself, make her feel safe man, remember YOU CAN DO IT thats my