Ms. Ditzy,
I would meet someone I was attracted to or found interesting online offline but take it slower than last December when I picked her up in front of a casino , her drunk , prelubricated, and married , agreeing to drive her right into the desert after she hiked up her mini skirt to show me her beaver had a landing strip. I had my dick in her 60 minutes after I laid eyes on her hot longlegged large breasted flesh, looked into her big brown eyes, and heard her cute west virginia twang , and
[ a first for me who usually is very slow with women and not aggressive at all, never having had a one night stand]
before really knowing a whole lot about her. I should have taken the time to get to know her, reach an understanding of her way of being, and determine if what she alleged about herself online was in fact reality offline and in person. I had no idea about the extent of her mental health issues and learned about them the hard way after I had become involved as a friend in her other issues..legal, financial, etc. Having sex with her complicated the friendship and intellectual connection first established online. She was a manic depressive personality suffering from post traumatic stress after being orally by her father, her mother abandoned her, and step mother ran away with an xxxxxxxx boy and went to jail leaving her a ward of the state. No self esteem, very negative, recent suicide attempts, drug abuse, psychiatric pathology,damaged ego, wanted by the law/courts,emotionally dysfunctional, relationship trainwreck waiting to happen,sexually out of control, no loving ways,dishonest,inconsiderate,uncaring, unhappy, and totally living a crisis after crisis lifestyle estranged from husband she was still living with in an apartment with no hot water, limited electricity, no food, no money, and so on. It would have been nice to know about all of this up front and not after we had been seeing each other intimately for weeks last December-January. I will certainly meet anyone offline who seems attractive or interesting but maybe the next time ask a few more questions...have a dialog that goes beyond flirting , being provocative , amusing , or intellectually stimulating.
Did you have something in mind, Ditzy ????
Message me anytime, email me , but no sunday afternoon desperation phonecalls from a casino where you just lost every penny you had to get out of the state and was abandoned as a joke by your circle of drug abusing friends. At least not until we get to know each other.