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Huh, what are you saying, you're bi but consider yourself straight because you only do it during threesomes?
This illustrates the problem of narrow thinking that we all suffer from now and then.
There IS NO RULE. There is only perception.
Once you accept that, the distinctions between "straight" "gay" "bi" and "a little gay but don't tell anyone" all go in the trash where they belong, PARTICULARLY because they can carry all that judgmental baggage of a repressed life. What can take their place, if we allow it to, is an understanding that we are all sexual beings and each of us has our own stuff that arouses us.
My own persona here is that of a very bi, maybe gay, middle aged guy who can sometimes appear to be annoyingly horny. In real life I've been faithful to one woman for over 35 years, have endured over 20 years of sexual refusal from her (even though we still seem to love each other) , and had exactly one cock-in-mouth experience when I was about 17. That sounds about as straight, narrow and asexual as they come. And that very reasonable conclusion would be about as inaccurate as it's possible to get.
Here, I place no limits on my fantasies and allow myself to stretch, to travel and to think outside the box I've lived in all my life. That's probably why my online identity is so bi-positive. In real life, women can absolutely make my knees weak. Men have never done that - they simply have no particular attraction for me.
But I get hot as hell watching nice thobbing cocks and really want to make them cum - hard. What does that make me? Damned if I know - probably bi or curious or something. The more important question to me is whether I'm feeding my sexual self or starving it. Once you get past that, it seems to me that labels are for other people to use instead of engaging in original thought.
This illustrates the problem of narrow thinking that we all suffer from now and then.
There IS NO RULE. There is only perception.
Once you accept that, the distinctions between "straight" "gay" "bi" and "a little gay but don't tell anyone" all go in the trash where they belong, PARTICULARLY because they can carry all that judgmental baggage of a repressed life. What can take their place, if we allow it to, is an understanding that we are all sexual beings and each of us has our own stuff that arouses us.
My own persona here is that of a very bi, maybe gay, middle aged guy who can sometimes appear to be annoyingly horny. In real life I've been faithful to one woman for over 35 years, have endured over 20 years of sexual refusal from her (even though we still seem to love each other) , and had exactly one cock-in-mouth experience when I was about 17. That sounds about as straight, narrow and asexual as they come. And that very reasonable conclusion would be about as inaccurate as it's possible to get.
Here, I place no limits on my fantasies and allow myself to stretch, to travel and to think outside the box I've lived in all my life. That's probably why my online identity is so bi-positive. In real life, women can absolutely make my knees weak. Men have never done that - they simply have no particular attraction for me.
But I get hot as hell watching nice thobbing cocks and really want to make them cum - hard. What does that make me? Damned if I know - probably bi or curious or something. The more important question to me is whether I'm feeding my sexual self or starving it. Once you get past that, it seems to me that labels are for other people to use instead of engaging in original thought.
But I get hot as hell watching nice thobbing cocks and really want to make them cum - hard. What does that make me? Damned if I know - probably bi or curious or something. The more important question to me is whether I'm feeding my sexual self or starving it. Once you get past that, it seems to me that labels are for other people to use instead of engaging in original thought.
I agree with this. I am absolutely not attracted to men, but very attracted to cocks. Basically, I love penis, but don't like what they are attached to. I would love to suck one. Maybe a glory hole would be better for me. I don't know.
This illustrates the problem of narrow thinking that we all suffer from now and then.
There IS NO RULE. There is only perception.
Once you accept that, the distinctions between "straight" "gay" "bi" and "a little gay but don't tell anyone" all go in the trash where they belong, PARTICULARLY because they can carry all that judgmental baggage of a repressed life. What can take their place, if we allow it to, is an understanding that we are all sexual beings and each of us has our own stuff that arouses us.
My own persona here is that of a very bi, maybe gay, middle aged guy who can sometimes appear to be annoyingly horny. In real life I've been faithful to one woman for over 35 years, have endured over 20 years of sexual refusal from her (even though we still seem to love each other) , and had exactly one cock-in-mouth experience when I was about 17. That sounds about as straight, narrow and asexual as they come. And that very reasonable conclusion would be about as inaccurate as it's possible to get.
Here, I place no limits on my fantasies and allow myself to stretch, to travel and to think outside the box I've lived in all my life. That's probably why my online identity is so bi-positive. In real life, women can absolutely make my knees weak. Men have never done that - they simply have no particular attraction for me.
But I get hot as hell watching nice thobbing cocks and really want to make them cum - hard. What does that make me? Damned if I know - probably bi or curious or something. The more important question to me is whether I'm feeding my sexual self or starving it. Once you get past that, it seems to me that labels are for other people to use instead of engaging in original thought.
This illustrates the problem of narrow thinking that we all suffer from now and then.
There IS NO RULE. There is only perception.
Once you accept that, the distinctions between "straight" "gay" "bi" and "a little gay but don't tell anyone" all go in the trash where they belong, PARTICULARLY because they can carry all that judgmental baggage of a repressed life. What can take their place, if we allow it to, is an understanding that we are all sexual beings and each of us has our own stuff that arouses us.
My own persona here is that of a very bi, maybe gay, middle aged guy who can sometimes appear to be annoyingly horny. In real life I've been faithful to one woman for over 35 years, have endured over 20 years of sexual refusal from her (even though we still seem to love each other) , and had exactly one cock-in-mouth experience when I was about 17. That sounds about as straight, narrow and asexual as they come. And that very reasonable conclusion would be about as inaccurate as it's possible to get.
Here, I place no limits on my fantasies and allow myself to stretch, to travel and to think outside the box I've lived in all my life. That's probably why my online identity is so bi-positive. In real life, women can absolutely make my knees weak. Men have never done that - they simply have no particular attraction for me.
But I get hot as hell watching nice thobbing cocks and really want to make them cum - hard. What does that make me? Damned if I know - probably bi or curious or something. The more important question to me is whether I'm feeding my sexual self or starving it. Once you get past that, it seems to me that labels are for other people to use instead of engaging in original thought.
It is only a fantasy of mine and will never happen though have told my wife about it many times.
If that all makes me bisexual great as I do love the thought of sucking another mans cock. And have seen many cock in NN that would do very fine.
Answering the original question, no, I wouldn't want just any random stranger get that close to my parts. Still, even though I'm overwhelmingly straight in my sexual tastes, if was a guy I already knew, was on good terms with, and he wasn't distractingly unattractive, I'm pretty certain I'd let him have a go with my privates. But to answer the last part of the OP, I recall touching one guy once but I was way way drunk and I don't recall anything beyond that (and no, I didn't wake up with a sore ass! )
Huh, what are you saying, you're bi but consider yourself straight because you only do it during threesomes?
I don't know where I fall to be honest. I never had an urge to suck, fuck or touch another mans cock. I have been in plenty of public showers/locker rooms where naked men were all over the place and never once thought to myself........"I sure would love to be with that guy for a night" The only time I have even had another dick in my hand was during a threesome with my wife and another guy. It was not my choice to touch him. My wife gets turned on by watching two guys jerk each other off so I did it for her. Did I enjoy it?.........Meh, not like I do with a woman but it did feel good. It must have felt good for him too because his dick was hard as a rock. My wife being in front of us naked stuffing her pussy with a big dildo may have contributed to that too though. LOL
Men seem to answer al the for the ladies posts, I don't feel guilty answering a for the men post.