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It is a double-edged sword, though. I constantly fear that he may become attached to a girl that we bring in for a threesome, and that bothers me slightly. I love him and fear losing him because I am not as sexual as some of these spring chickens. However, he is good at both satisfying me and comforting me on the matter. I don't think any other guy could convince me of such a thing...
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Currently, I'm considering more... alternatives, since becoming so injured from a recent series of crippling heart attacks. I feel much less sexy, my stamina is permanently handicapped, and rough sex is nearly out of the question now... I'm terrified that my sexual adept husband will slip away from me since I lost so much sexual value. I'm torn on what to do now when it comes to this topic, and I've been sitting on it and trying to hide it as best as possible.
It is a double-edged sword, though. I constantly fear that he may become attached to a girl that we bring in for a threesome, and that bothers me slightly. I love him and fear losing him because I am not as sexual as some of these spring chickens. However, he is good at both satisfying me and comforting me on the matter. I don't think any other guy could convince me of such a thing...
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Currently, I'm considering more... alternatives, since becoming so injured from a recent series of crippling heart attacks. I feel much less sexy, my stamina is permanently handicapped, and rough sex is nearly out of the question now... I'm terrified that my sexual adept husband will slip away from me since I lost so much sexual value. I'm torn on what to do now when it comes to this topic, and I've been sitting on it and trying to hide it as best as possible.
your a very sexy lady so i wouldn't think he would ask for more
It is a double-edged sword, though. I constantly fear that he may become attached to a girl that we bring in for a threesome, and that bothers me slightly. I love him and fear losing him because I am not as sexual as some of these spring chickens. However, he is good at both satisfying me and comforting me on the matter. I don't think any other guy could convince me of such a thing...
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Currently, I'm considering more... alternatives, since becoming so injured from a recent series of crippling heart attacks. I feel much less sexy, my stamina is permanently handicapped, and rough sex is nearly out of the question now... I'm terrified that my sexual adept husband will slip away from me since I lost so much sexual value. I'm torn on what to do now when it comes to this topic, and I've been sitting on it and trying to hide it as best as possible.
Playing Devils advocate here.......
...so your wife says because of her menopause she has decided you both are going to be celibate, telling you your sex life is over too and doesn't see that as a problem?
...so your wife says because of her menopause she has decided you both are going to be celibate, telling you your sex life is over too and doesn't see that as a problem?
You got it right. It is the MOST common scenario that leads to the disintegration of long term marriages.
Even when (or if) she eventually comes to accept it as a problem, it will take far, far more than that for her to accept her husband looking outside the marriage for a healthy release. That's where I am at the moment - it'll take only another twenty years to work it out.
Currently, I'm considering more... alternatives, since becoming so injured from a recent series of crippling heart attacks. I feel much less sexy, my stamina is permanently handicapped, and rough sex is nearly out of the question now... I'm terrified that my sexual adept husband will slip away from me since I lost so much sexual value. I'm torn on what to do now when it comes to this topic, and I've been sitting on it and trying to hide it as best as possible.
I have a couple suggestions. First, talk with your husband openly about this, including about your anxieties. You can't work thing out if you're reluctant to talk about them.
Second, don't be afraid to trust him. This isn't about sex; it's about love. The fact that you are willing, and even motivated, to have him play with other women is a rare and loving thing for you to do. To the extent that your arrangement addresses his more vigorous sexual appetite, it leaves room for you and him to focus on the deeper love and intimacy of your marriage. It may actually bring you closer together instead of creating weaknesses. Let the both of you focus on love and intimacy, whether sex is part of it or not.
Love takes constant work and effort. You can still do that work and make that effort, so feel confident in your abilities and in the fact that he really does love you.
then we met others for sex as well, on our own, and she would ask me what we did etc, but when ever we had a ffm she always joined in and then sat back to watch me in action, and when we met bi guys for sex too she liked sitting back to see me with another guy, think were both just kinky
I don't mind that he diddles other women (its only fair), but I don't usually enjoy watching it. The only time I do is when its with a girlie that is truly in need of a good fucking and I will get to play with her afterwards.
Then one day my wife announced that her best female friend from her country had asked if she could visit us and stay with us for a month. We knew each other, she was a great person, so I immediately said yes.
She then arrived and we all took time off work to show her the country and do things together. She arrived on a Friday and on Sunday evening after a fun filled day with lots of activities we were getting ready to go to bed. When my wife came up behind me in our bedroom and said that she had talked with her friend and that I should now go to the guest room and be as good a masseur, lover and inventive and attentive husband with her best friend as I was with her. I was very surprised, she smiled and me and said, "Now go. Go on! She is waiting for you!".
I spent most of the nights while my wife's friend was staying with us in the guest room and really enjoyed the erotic atmosphere and the fun filled sex with a beautiful woman and going by my wife's and her friend's comments my attentive, sensual efforts were well received. My wife never joined us but told me that her friend had agreed to tell her every detail.
My wife's friend returned twice more to stay with us.
Okay, we all know about the wife sharing and watching one's wife fuck and suck other Cock's but what of the wives and girlfriends who enjoy seeing their man eat out, rim out, or fuck another Pussy and Ass? Seems like more women are getting into the husband sharing even as many ore men still seem to prefer wife sharing.
Believing NN 75% guys would love if wife let them be shared with other women
JMO must have been high when he wrote this thread *still laughing my ass off*