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I have been recognized twice by male co-workers from pics I posted to another site and twice by strangers that saw my pics on these sites. In the case of the co-workers, they quietly asked me if they were my pics on the site and rather than deny it, I was upfront and admitted it. I asked that they please not share that info with anyone so that I could continue to post pics, which I enjoy doing. This was several years ago and as far as I know, they have not shared that info. At least not with anyone at work that I know of.
Of the 2 people that I know recognized me out in public, one never said anything but emailed me to ask if I had been in a certain store at a certain time, which I had, so it was obvious he had seen me. The other person saw me at another store, while taking flashing pics actually and did have the courage to come up and ask me if I was Dee. It startled me at first and hubby was not too happy about it, but the guy was nice and did not turn into a stalker or anything, so it was fine. Thankfully, no family or close friends have recognized me. At least not that I know of.
Relations back at home carried on as normal.
("when in Rome, do what the romans do"
Even though the horse had already bolted, we immediately cancelled her account and deleted all adult pics of her online. We both waited nervously for pictures to be circulated, or for any odd behaviour from others who know us. We didn't want to confront him just in case, and he seemed normal enough the next few times we met at social events so we let it go. When he was diagnosed a few months later with cancer we visited him before he succumbed and subtly enquired what he knew. He admitted that yes, he had chatted to her but reminded us he had never outright deceived her and that she willingly send him pictures and was not sure if she knew it was him but was willing to keep the game going. He assured us that he had not told anyone, after all, he had sent a few pics as well.
We asked how he knew it was her since she didn't post her face so he showed us the folder where he had saved the pictures she sent him or posted on the site. Early on before she started getting her clothes off some pictures showed our house and cars. The pictures later on after she started getting her clothes off for him clearly showed our yard and other recognisable belongings in the background. Both my wife and I felt a bit uneasy when we saw that this man we knew well had over 100 pictures of her in a separate folder, ranging from innocent pictures of him at social events with my wife, then to some swimwear pictures he had snuck of her at home, then to the pictures on the chat site first of all showing bra and panty flashes before moving on to full naked, leg spread pictures.
He sensed we were a little uneasy and told us he will delete all these pictures while we were there and I was welcome to search his files for copies. (of course he could have saved them to a thumb drive) He seemed genuine enough that he was not stalking her and as he asked me, if I had pictures of a woman we knew, wouldn't I also save them to look at some time which is fair enough. As he started to delete the pictures one by one, we discussed some of them and started to feel more at ease. Towards the end we got to the more explicit pictures and he and my wife got over their embarrassment and had a bit of a laugh discussing their chat sessions.
We were relieved that he had been very discrete with her pictures, it could have been much worse if one of her social or business competitors recognised her. We have an agreement now that she can chat if she wants but I vet any pictures before she sends them, just in case as discretion is not her strong point.
We did bump into a secretary from my job at a local LifeStyle Friendly Nudist Resort. Her and her husband were there as nudists...the wife and I were there as swingers. It was never discussed at work. After we moved into the resort full time...we never bumped into any acquaintances that didn't know we were nudists/swingers.
Now, have I recognized co-workers on posting sites...YES! Several. But never told them I say their postings. I even recognized a woman in the grocery stored I recognized from a cam website. I knew she lived near us but never expected to see her in the store. I just smiled as I passed her in the store.
I think you would have to be brave or an idiot to acknowledge that you recognize someone from a porn site. Just keep your moth shut and be discrete as possible.
1. If we are all working to be a community wouldn't it be nice to utilize this site so we could show whatever pics we wanted too? I am careful because of work and others have their reasons but if we all agreed that "what happens in Vegas STAYS in Vegas" then trust would develop wouldn't it? Problem nowadays is that selfies rule versus privacy and discretion. I am working to build relationships, online that they are here, and to create as much symbiosis between online and real.
2. What do you do when you take on a new employment position only to be introduced to a new coworker who turns out to be a sex partner from an adult site???? I have had that happen but not 100% sure she recognized me as it had been sometime but I remember every sexual encounter that I have and in this case I just acted like I had met her for the first time. Secretly I was thinking of how much she enjoyed me eating her out, how she loved that I was so smooth and wanted to suck me as much as possible because of it. Now there's a first day of new job for ya,
3. How about relatives? Did you ever flirt with anyone not seeing their face and then find out that was your Aunt? Your cousin? Your sibling? Your spouse-yikes! I know of people in all of the above scenarios.
There is too much Identity Theft and cyber crime not to be vigilant and focus on privacy and discretion but I masturbate to pics on here because I want to think that I can build something of a connection to my Tributes. It is a form of sexual activity that we have so why not make the best of it???
One bad example is a girl who used to work with my wife in Indonesia did a few nude modelling shoots while struggling to find work. Someone notified her boss and when she got to work, the pictures were put up on the screen in the morning team meeting to shame her. They had blanked out her pussy in the more explicit shots as this is illegal in Indonesia, but she had to stand in front of her co-workers while her boss yelled at her while her pics were flicking over on the screen. After that she was fired and I know police were involved. I know that would happen the same in western countries, but is something that woman risk in other less enlightened countries.
If so, we learned some things about each other: she learned that I'm bi, and I learned that she fantasizes about BBC.
My reaction was to keep it to myself. Why would I tell her, except if I thought it could be an overture to get into the sack with her? As it was, I strongly suspected she knew nothing about it and that her husband had posted the pic. So telling her could have had disastrous consequences for them.
I suspect that, if you're recognised, you probably won't hear about it. The risk is that the person recognising you will tell others, perhaps friends/workmates.
later, an classmate of my university told me that he found the profile (he revealed to be gay) and, after I asked who more knew, he told me a lot of names (more classmates of mine).
But he does not know who more knows since he only have asked the girl that told him about the videos (he later revealed that he didn't find by himself)...
But actually, I like it very much...
later, an classmate of my university told me that he found the profile (he revealed to be gay) and, after I asked who more knew, he told me a lot of names (more classmates of mine)...
But actually, I like it very much...
Did you get naked with him?
We haven't been recognized since and much to my husbands disappointment (lol), my close friend and I haven't gone any further since then.
later, an classmate of my university told me that he found the profile (he revealed to be gay) and, after I asked who more knew, he told me a lot of names (more classmates of mine)...
But actually, I like it very much...
Did you get naked with him?
No... but he want it.
later, an classmate of my university told me that he found the profile (he revealed to be gay) and, after I asked who more knew, he told me a lot of names (more classmates of mine)...
But actually, I like it very much...
Did you get naked with him?
No... but he want it.
Do it! And take pictures of your hot selves in action ...
I'd never seen any pics of him but he'd told me his stats, and I started to think I knew who it was, someone I'd even worked with directly once or twice over the years but didn't know very well. I cut it off because I was suddenly nervous about the idea of even sharing pics with someone I worked with. But I'd still see him in the company gym and I was convinced he was looking at me as if he knew it was me, though he never said anything about it. And every time I saw him I'd think about the photos he'd seen (and maybe saved), because although my face wasn't visible, every inch of the rest of my body was.
I'd never seen any pics of him but he'd told me his stats, and I started to think I knew who it was, someone I'd even worked with directly once or twice over the years but didn't know very well. I cut it off because I was suddenly nervous about the idea of even sharing pics with someone I worked with. But I'd still see him in the company gym and I was convinced he was looking at me as if he knew it was me, though he never said anything about it. And every time I saw him I'd think about the photos he'd seen (and maybe saved), because although my face wasn't visible, every inch of the rest of my body was.