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While my wife is not so much into giving oral, she does LOVE to receive it and it seems I'm pretty good at it. What I have picked up from ex girlfriends and my wife is this.
Most seems to like you to concentrate on the clit area.. They really don't get much stimulation from your tongue going in the hole an inch or so. My wife and most girlfriends like a mix of mainly licking the clit area, with a bit of sucking the clit area in and out a little.
It s like for men, they get 90% of the stimulation around the head and not so much from the shaft. Similarly, woman get 90% of their stimulation from the clit area and not the hole.
Most seem to like starting with some slow, gentle licking a bit all over, then some slow, gentle licking around the clit. Once they start getting a bit more aroused, then lick harder and faster as they start thrusting their pussy into your face. Every now and then, when you need a rest, gently suck their clit in and out for a few seconds while everyone regroups and catches a breath. My wife and some ex girlfriends have liked to have the clit area sucked right when they are orgasming.
My wife and a few Ex girlfriends have liked a bit of anal fingering when I am down their, usually only just finger tips moving a little inside their butt, (not big full finger butt reaming), even the girls who just don't do anal. They also liked me to pull my finger out mid orgasm.
Once they have cum, most have preferred a minutes rest, then go back up and feed them some dick for another orgasm. Not many have wanted me to stop just after a licking.
Would any real woman here agree with the above?
On another note, after several orgasms from clit play, I get very sensitive and don't want the tongue or toy there, but that is perfect for fucking. I love having hubby or bf fuck me right after. I always cum 1 or 2 more times while fucking right after because the stimulation is not as intense but still feels great. I can understand waiting a bit if she is highly sensitive though. Like anything else, you just have to ask and experiment.