I tease my husband about his little dikclit almost every day. I have even done it when with our friends. And if I allow him to be in the bedroom when I am with a lover, I make it a point to tease him about his "shortcoming". Might say something like: "My god, Sweetie! His cock feels SO good insuide me! So much better than feeling your little thing inside me! He can make me cum! You like seeing him fuck me like this? Awww! Are you gonna rub you little clit and cum for us, baby?"
I have shown a couple of my close woman friends pictures of his cute little nubbin. I know they have spread it around because now almost everyone in our small community seems to know that my husband has something more akin to a girlie part than a man's proud cock.
To be honest I have seen your two pix here and although your little cocklet is not hard in either pic, what you are showing looks larger than my husband's stubby little lady bit.