But this makes me inclined to ask ladies whether they feel that these frequent references to an 'ex' are likely to have a significance that I should take on board? In other words, if you felt close to someone new and had romantic aspirations, would you feel it's the right time to keep reminding them about a past partner'? I certainly wouldn't but perhaps it's something that women view differently.
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But this makes me inclined to ask ladies whether they feel that these frequent references to an 'ex' are likely to have a significance that I should take on board? In other words, if you felt close to someone new and had romantic aspirations, would you feel it's the right time to keep reminding them about a past partner'? I certainly wouldn't but perhaps it's something that women view differently.
Maybe ask her? If she is defensive, she may have left-over feelings that she doesn't want to admit to...if she is embarrassed. She probably didn't even realize she was doing it. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt, but, either way, you need to know for your own sake.
Sadly, however, my initial problem has been replaced by another. I'd welcome thoughts on this, so I'll try another thread...