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i had a boyfriend that wasnt into much more than 2 pos and not oral
that got boring fast
if the lady is your age with religious background, good girls didnt do those things
could be a reason?
Maybe put on a rubber and let her suck it with a rubber on then if she is afraid of smell or ejaculation it will be in the rubber. Maybe you hold her head and she don`t like that. Maybe your too rough and she gags.
Sounds like she is afraid to tell you why she won`t. Are you freshly bathed? Did you put it in her before you wanted her to suck it?
I had never had a guy that did not want to eat me so I do not know what I would do if he refused. Probably throw him out of the house. Some times I feel funny about being eaten cause not freshly showered and smell too musky, lol.
The ones I have dealt with who loved giving BJ's were also enthusiastic about sex in general. The couple I dealt with who either couldn't or wouldn't give a BJ simply weren't into sex more than initially in the relationship / dating.
Perhaps that won't be the situation with the woman you are seeing. But it still might be something to keep in mind.
Also, if it bothers you enough, you might just want to talk about it. There might be some issue she has that she hasn't expressed. Sometimes just talking about something can work it out.
The ones I have dealt with who loved giving BJ's were also enthusiastic about sex in general. The couple I dealt with who either couldn't or wouldn't give a BJ simply weren't into sex more than initially in the relationship / dating.
Perhaps that won't be the situation with the woman you are seeing. But it still might be something to keep in mind.
Also, if it bothers you enough, you might just want to talk about it. There might be some issue she has that she hasn't expressed. Sometimes just talking about something can work it out.
Oh, yes I do agree with you.
Ladies, if a guy wouldn't go down on you, is it a big deal?
That would be one deal breaker, that was one of my ex husbands
sexual difficulties.
if everything else was great, really?
If you love her try talking to her, maybe even go to couples therapy, but if she's not prepared to compromise at all and occasionally fulfill your sexual needs with what most would consider a fairly basic, vanilla activity, all I can say is that I'd think very carefully before planning a long term future.