I look at it this way. Compared to interweb and porn pics, I feel inadequate....but in the real world, I have had many partners, probably over 50....I have had only 1 complaint, and that was my fault for having too much to drink. In the end, my partners have enjoyed my hardness, and willingness to please them before pleasuring myself over everything. I have also been told I have a truly sweet suckable cock, and thick enough to be told not to even try to put my cock near their assholes. After being with my wife for 10 years, she has tried once...and that was one too many times. I have a GF though who loves my cock in her every hole.