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not cos you love him
but cos you think you will enjoy it
if not it can come back to bite you in the ass... just my
I have been involved in ONLY ONE 3-some with a guy and his wife...and only one one occasion. It was unexpected and on a business trip. We had a great time and I was super excited to be able to “check off” one more item on my “Bucket List”... but after 3 to 4 hours with them in the hotel room I was pretty much “done” and ready to call it a day.
I think as the woman involved....you should be the one to “pick” who the other man is so you will be happy with the choice. I totally agree with “Bigguy1953” that this should be planned for an afternoon or evening with a starting and ending time known by all before it starts.
If your husband and you and the lucky “other guy” decide you are more “Marthon” runners than “Sprinters”.....then the next time you can extend the duration to whatever seems to work best.
Best of luck and please give a tasty update if this happens!
Just make sure you are happy with the other guy and I hope all goes well !
Even after that, I'd make sure you were comfortable with a 3-some that was a single session, lasting no more than an hour, hanging out after it was over.
These fantasies sound exciting when you're horny and not actually in the midst of it. Personally, I doubt I would be comfortable in any threesome, particularly once I had gotten off. They would have to be a *really* trusted friend, with zero risk of jealousy from any one of the three people involved.
Ask your man if he's ever done a 24-hour 3some and how it went. I suspect he may be as inexperienced at this as you are. He needs to temper his desires. What's his recovery time? And be careful. If he wants an MFM, is he just setting you up for an FMF because you "owe it to him."
Neither of you should jump into this without considering all the possibilities and establishing rules and safewords. Are you ready for BDSM? Do you want to see your man have sex with the other guy? Will toys be used? By whom on whom? Have you had anal sex? Do you want to stick your tongue up a guy's ass or lick cum dripping from his asshole? Do you want to be pissed on? Are you ready to drink piss? Or deal with defecation? What if you get pregnant? Will you use condoms? Are you sure everyone is disease-free? Will all get tested beforehand? And can you be sure all will be celibate after being tested? Don't assume anything.
Set rules about what's O.K. and what's not and move slowly and know what the consequences could be.
I'm a guy, and his proposal is exciting. I'd love to have a 3some, but I'm sure I'd be drained long before 24 hours. Even when I was in my 20's, I don't think I could have made it.
Good luck.
Why not ?? If you are also up for it, go girl !!!
To refer to some warnings above, yes 24 hrs is a long time....
But then, how long will the guys actually last ??
Our fantasy is for a weekend.
But it won't be marathon sex.
It will be as often as any of the 3 of us wants to fuck.
So it won't be a rush thing, but it will be a weekend of plenty of sex.
We still have to find the right guy though.
Neither me nor gf likes condoms, so we will have to be absolute sure the guy is std free before we will even consider it.
That said..... Would love to hear from you again. Did you decide to do it ?
And how did it go ?
Please do tell.
Ask your man if he's ever done a 24-hour 3some and how it went. I suspect he may be as inexperienced at this as you are. He needs to temper his desires. What's his recovery time? And be careful. If he wants an MFM, is he just setting you up for an FMF because you "owe it to him."
Neither of you should jump into this without considering all the possibilities and establishing rules and safewords. Are you ready for BDSM? Do you want to see your man have sex with the other guy? Will toys be used? By whom on whom? Have you had anal sex? Do you want to stick your tongue up a guy's ass or lick cum dripping from his asshole? Do you want to be pissed on? Are you ready to drink piss? Or deal with defecation? What if you get pregnant? Will you use condoms? Are you sure everyone is disease-free? Will all get tested beforehand? And can you be sure all will be celibate after being tested? Don't assume anything.
Set rules about what's O.K. and what's not and move slowly and know what the consequences could be.
I'm a guy, and his proposal is exciting. I'd love to have a 3some, but I'm sure I'd be drained long before 24 hours. Even when I was in my 20's, I don't think I could have made it.
Good luck.
I couldn't have said this better. 24 hours? I am a Type A guy - high energy - love all aspects of sex. Very little is off limits. But - I worry that you are submitting to something just to please him. What if the other guy is hung like a horse - are you will to have your ass destroyed? I don't like this scenario - and I am no prude. I would like to read what you decided.
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But if you're on board with any scenario then if you're getting a room it won't be a full 24 hrs unless you check in and out right at the times applicable. But you'll get plenty of time, probably works either way if it's going good or not quite as expected.
Time isn't really the issue, it's compatibility. If you've chosen well then the limiting factors are food and water. If you've chosen not so well you just need to end it gracefully as is possible.
A white lie can be useful but be prepared to chase someone off with a blunt instrument if need be.
If you don't have experience and aren't completely sure of your guest then I recommend getting a room unless that's not applicable as in the case where you choose someone in your circle of friends, who already know where you live. Sometimes the person you were communicating with online morphs into a nutcase when you add pussy or alcohol, LOL