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The thought has crossed my mind, but I don’t care if she is getting some on side as long as I can get mine. I actually wouldn’t mind if she came home full of cum and let me fuck her. I am a little nasty.
And I would should I find one willing ! I think I would be easier to live with too --after the fact. You know...
So Yeah, I would say get you some! And go home with a smile on your face... As I told my wife, Its Sex! I don't love the woman , But I need something beside my right hand!
Some was good, some was REALLY good, some was not so good and some was just shit.
But it only takes care of the "immediate needs at hand", i.e., "for the moment".
by choice, it would be selfish to expect the other to atrophy along.
No to the prostitute question, I can get sex willingly
Second, a legitimate question based on needs, age, life, so forth was asked with some good answers and the typical juvenile response (as in how many juveniles are there here???????).
Third, we are in a day/age of why would one choose prostituon over the free stuff? Although I have no interest in prostitutes the response above grading their service kinda hits the bullseye on the Opening Thread. Is it better just to pay for a needed service and get it versus the "entanglement" of what is free? Too many people say No Strings Attached Sex but that is a myth. The women will scheme to keep the men and the men are often too jealous without any ability to admit it.
I would say think it through some more, point-blank ask the wife if she is being shared without your permission and then balance what you do with the answers that you get from discussing it all with her.
Unfortunate, that sort of thing seems to be standard in way too many marriages.
I would think that the best way to deal with it is -- if you haven't done this already -- have a serious talk with her about it. Perhaps your wife isn't aware of how serious the issue is to your marriage. Some people simply do not realize the severity of their own expectations upon the other partner. None of us are mind readers.
And you could always just use porn. Millions of men do -- whether they're in marriages, dead bedroom relationships, or if they're single.
Yeah, it's not like the real thing. But it's a lot less risky.
?? I'm not married to a man and not interested in a man.
?? What are you on about?