would you ever let your partner control life? and why!
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would you ever let your partner control life? and why!
However I do prefer when my partner makes most of the decisions, especially the important stuff.
My boyfriend now is smarter than that. He's comfortable
with us both being equal partners in our relationship.
big decisions are made together,, and whoever gets to the
little shit first takes care of it.. LOL!!
In my opinion, a lot of it has to do with mutual respect..
How can you respect someone and want to control them??
Fortunately,since beoming no one has ever dared to try to control me.
Isnt it strange how real life and sex are so different?
Do you do (or not do) things because you wish to please him/her ?
I thought so. You're being controlled whether you realize it or not, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing now is it?
So many friends of ours have sucky marriages.. one or both of them are controlling.
Every time my wife visits with her friends or sisters.. for a whole day... without me.. she comes home so unbelievably happy.. telling me.. "donna's husband called her three or four times.. wondering when she was coming home.. and for various other reasons".. or "I am so very very happy that you believe in me and trust me enough to go out and have a great time without you.. knowing i'll be coming home to you".
With respect,comes freedom, and brings about trust. with honesty, trust and respect.. come a more fruitful relationship and a much deeper love. and that in turn brings about much more enthralling sex as well.
I watched my father treat his wives with such utter despiteful behaviour that I swore I'd never ever treat a girlfriend nor lover or wife with anything close to what he did. Hopefully, something will hit him in the ass one day and knock the breath out of him. Maybe then he'll understand... One can only pray and wish.
but I can now understand why ppl do it.
I didnt control my now ex at all, I wanted her to be free & do what she wants, as long as she was faithfull, but that ended up biting me in the arse & she cheated on me, so who knows, maybe the ppl that control there partners are right.