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have her take a hot bath before you lube her up,this will relax her ass, once out of the bath try a little foreplay involving your tongue circling around her asshole,put easy lube or any other bum fun cream on your finger and massage it in gently.
if done correctly all should go well.
It takes time. But something that helps heaps is if you give her a nice bubble bath first. Girls love that kind of thing, and the hot water helps her to relax. Oh, and it also makes her ass nice and clean so you can lick it.
Considering past experience, you could just stop here and fuck her the regular way. Pressure to perform does *not* help people to relax for sure, and if you take the pressure off and just make it so she *likes* getting attention back there, then you've won half the battle.
Hope that helps man.