i use a small one occaisionaly.
its doesnt really help

I haven't had the courage to go and buy an actual dildo yet mysslf, but I have been using a cucumber for anal stimulation while masturbating lots of times. It does feel so so good. Lets face it, the male G-Spot is up the ass, so why not enjoy the feeling. I don't believe it says anything about ones sexuality at all, just pure good fun.

actually the male G-spot is a P-spot, because that way you stimulate the prostate...

Either for solo masturbation or while my g/f's playing with my cock I/we sometimes use a vibrator on my balls with a small one that slips onto a finger, this toy or one of her bigger vibes along the vein along the edge of my cock's glans is good too. That part of my cock is very sensitive, pull my foreskin right back and play the toy on it there and my cock gets about as hard as it ever does and usually I cum fast, especially if she's playing with another vibe on my balls. It's fun on my own, more fun if I do it while she watches, but best if she has the vibes, one on my cock's glans and one on my balls, if guys haven't tried it, want to have a very intense orgasm and like to be very open with their partner about what does it for them, I'd recommend trying this a lot.

I like nothing better than a long HARD session with a dildo / bottle or vibrator -- each has their own appeal.

Lube is a must -- and if i were to give you advice:
1) Start off slow with a finger -- find that "p-spot"
2) Progress to an object
3) try different objects but you HAVE to try a vibrator

i find that overly long objects arent as much fun as a good shaped beer bottle - the vibe going can give you an ultimate buzz, but a bottle can stretch you am make you feel so full!

I use an old toothbrush when i masturbate in the shower not the end with the bristles the other end it feels the best when i cum cuz of the contractions all around down there

i have used a bullet vibe gently tied to my cock filp on a porno movie laid back and let the vibe work my cock till i cant hold back and spurted everywhere but never annaly

No, I don't like anything up there. I do like to feel the outdoor breeze on my ass, though (see my blog).

No, I never used one... t's pure handwork

If you look at my photos ypu can see how i use to masturbate

Michael

I do, been using them for years. I have a few small to medium butt plugs and a few dildos I like to use. I also have a prostate massager that is AWESOME too. I LOVE anal play!

I always play with my ass when I'm masturbating. Started out fingering myself and now use either butt plugs or dildos. I think a lot of men do, straight, bi or gay. You could show your wife this thread or let her catch you playing with your ass and see what her reaction is.