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Mickxxx's blog post - Money changes ever thing.

Sunday, December 2, 2007, 4:21:16 AM
MONEY! I find it interesting what money can do to people, what you can achieve with it. How it seems to categorize people and the harm it can bring. It’s nice to think if you had loads of it, you’d not change, but would you? Really? Money seems to show our issues and vulnerabilities because it touches on almost all aspects of life. It reveals deep parts of our needs, fears and desires. How it can actual drive an ugly wedge between our relationships.
My sister married a rich guy and she’s changed. I miss my old sister, the cool, down to earth , funny sister I once had. Maybe that’s why she’s currently having marriage problems, I don’t know. I do know my brother in-law thinks he’s above many people. You can just see it in his eyes, the way he looks at you. Kind of like he’s looking down at you and he doesn’t even have to say a word or though he’s says a lot of condescending things that just piss me off. It’s hard to describe the way I feel about my sister’s problem marriage. In a way, I almost felt glad when my Mom told me, as much as I hate to admit it. I feel like a shit now but I cannot help these feelings. I don’t want to see my sister unhappy or see her marriage fail. I guess its my belief of how she has changed, hoping maybe she’ll realize how she’s changed and just start acting like the sister I remember, the one I grew up with, the big sister I love.

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2-Dec-07 4:59:38
It goes both ways... in that lack of money can make some do some dark and wrong things too. But, as for your older sis, even if she's changed, let her know you haven't, and that if she's having issues, that you will be there for her, money or no. Dunno if that helps, or if it's too simple, or what. Just my thinking for now.
she bop
2-Dec-07 5:23:21
First off...."Money Changes Everything" is a Cyndi song....second...ppl say mone is the root of all evil and other say NO money is the root of all evil. Either way....it ain't all it's cracked up to be eh?
Anya32
2-Dec-07 10:14:20
Might not just be the money sweetie. If her husband is that kind of person maybe he's the one that's changed her, not the money....just a thought....all you can do is be there for her like md says. Hugs xxxxx
perfectkat
4-Dec-07 11:45:03
I have the SAME situation with a sister in law! Very sad to see that transformation. :(