It amazes me that guys are on the look out...well gals too...for gals to have fun with, whether cyber or for real...and then and go and fuck it all up. Obviously from my name I like groups...but that doesn't mean the invite is open to anyone.I had set up party with 4 guys and this other gal...we were to meet , have a few drinks etc etc. All was going well till one guy announced out of the blue he invited three other guys and thought that would be fine. Well his reasoning was well if I was "going to do 4 "...then another three wouldn't matter. Yes it does matter...I dont do this everyday ...I do have a job etc etc. I do like partying...but geez....I set my rules...you dont like, then there is nothing I can do about that.