I have been invited to a wedding on Saturday that I am not sure I should go to. In 1984 I was in a bad situation. I ended up giving up a son for adoption. He was adopted by his grandparents on his father's side. Fast forward 29 years he is getting married, he doesn't know he was adopted. The man he thinks was his brother was really his biological father. His biological father died in 1994. I was invited because I was once part of the family. I am at the point where I will not lie about it if I am asked but I am not going to volunteer the information either. I am not sure if I deal with the painful memories of that time of my life, but I want to see him happy all the same. My husband won't give an opinion. What do you think? |