Candy52958's blog post - Over the years

It has become more and more evident some men just want a woman who is attached to someone else. I'm not sure if it is an ego thing or some other reason that drives the behavior, but something leads several down this path.
I had men that would flirt, touch more than respectable or even make comments to try and get me when they knew I had a boyfriend or a husband. Others and yes I proved this a few times only wanted me when I wore an engagement ring or a wedding ring.
You ask how I proved it. Easy by being around them or at a gathering when wearing one and when not wearing one. While not wearing one I wasn't given the time of day to be honest. So it isn't about looks or dressing sexy to these men.
Others that knew who I was married to worked very hard to get me in their bed and especially if they were jealous of my husband. To them I believe it was a power trip. Kind of like look what I did to him, I fucked his wife type of high.
Now that being said I kind of went down that path in a way myself and will admit it was a high that I didn't think could be that exciting.
Once was a woman that Hubby just thought was the hottest woman alive, not only did I fuck her ex-husband, but I went further and fucked her boyfriend. I swear I felt like I was on top of the world. I did both men she had while we knew her, and they kept calling me wanting even more.
I loved telling hubby about those adventures. Here he thinks she is hotter than any woman walking, and I could have either man she had at will.
So I get the power aspect but by the same token those that wanted me while I wore a ring and didn't want me when I didn't wear one will forever amaze me.