What am I seeking on here? I am not quite sure. I am a decent man, who made the decision to raise his children, after a divorce, and not subject them to a revolving door of relationships. In the interim, I forgot about me. I find myself getting on in years and have become more selective in my dating practices in that what I seek, I seek it to be forever lasting at this point. In other words, I don't waste my time hoping that someone will change or that their goal is to change me; I am who I am. I tend to think I am a great catch. On here, I guess, I realize I probably won't meet anyone in person, but I am open to it. Same with a relationship. My libido has not died and I enjoy perving from time to time with the best of them. I like the "safeness" of online and phone play, but enjoy more than that to some degree. You know, real conversation, real laughter...some sort of connection, if you know what I mean. Other than all that, I am sane, self-sufficient, funny as all hell, decent looking, and a great guy to get to know. That being said...don't be afraid to contact me...we'll probably both be pleasantly surprised!