So here's the thing. I was talking about Ella earlier. She was in a sense the best I ever had. Not literally the best at making love. She had her flaws. But the best all round package. And that was, in large degree, because she was the most proactively submissive. The most fascinating girls are the ones that pretend to be submissive but then do the opposite. That of course is a basic fact of life that women inevitably fail to comprehend - else they would have men following them around like puppy dogs. And if you are a woman reading this you will fail to understand this because you are evolutionary hot-wired to fail to understand it. You want to think the best of men and do not want to think they are easilly manipulated. Women are easilly manipulated. One of the basic weaknesses that the male often exploits in the female is their predilection to guilt. Women are in love with guilt., It turns them on sexually. They wallow in it, analysing their failures in ways men are incapable of doing. Anyhow I digress except to say that Ella had a way of manipulating you - letting you feel you were in total control whilst in some ways she built the agenda. When we got into the bedroom, she would take the initiative and go to the centre of the room and kneel on the floor and say, "What do you want me to do now Master?" As a rule, I would take that as my cue to go to the bathroom and wash my manhood and them come back and stand over her because I would like her to start by taking my manhood in her mouth whilst looking up at me. Well Ok a bit bog standard but it was the way it went. I would put a leash on her first, not to lead her anywhere, more symbolic than anything. This before I told her to undress. Oh yes a note about this washing thing. I regard it as a mutual courtesy. I fucking hate it when you go down on a girl and she tastes salty because she hasn't washed herself properly after her last pee even though she knows you may be going down on her. Girls must hate it when a man is smelly I imagine. Why for fuck's sake not be clean. I mean don't you wash your hands after you piss? Same sort of thing. A basic rule. Ok - gotta go - more follows maybe something different tomorrow and more sex the day after - Big hugs - x |