I see the war of whos right has already started...for one My wife was not in an abusive relationship..she has been lied to and egged on to leave me by two selfish individuals who shouldve kept their noses out of our marriage and life...the last thing I was told by my wife was I love you more everyday and want to grow old with you ..the next day she moved away and the lies have perpetuated ever since...so if you want truths..ask me..not them..and for the head over heels in love commen t...shes known the guy 2 weeks...lets see h0w long it lasts..never trust anyone you meet on the internet