Hi there! Things have certainly changed for me over the last few years. Since I've discovered this site and other alternative sex sites, it's been so much fun exploring my sexual interests and discovering there was so much more out there that I didn't know about, or that I didn't know that I would like! I haven't had a chance to chat with too many people yet but it's so great to know that there are many, many others that don't judge, who you can talk openly with and to share some of my deepest thoughts with (however taboo I might have thought them to be). Thanks! Oh yeah, the pictures and videos are great too! LOL So a couple of years ago I was diagnosed with cancer, at which time I had to undergo a major surgery. The results of this operation meant I am now cancer free (hurray!!) but it also meant that I was left with what I would call a "new" and "not improved" body. With my many scares and the unfortunate inability to get an erection, let's just say my sexual activities changed a lot. My wife has been great through all this but she doesn't look at me like she used to and she certainly doesn't come on to me as much as she did before. But one of the weird things about the whole situation is that I think I think about sex more than I ever did before and I seem to be horny all the time! One good thing is I can still feel an orgasm (strange though because no cum) and I also must say that I am getting very, very good at oral sex (along with the magic touch with my fingers). Sorry, didn't mean to get all serious and all as I'm sure most of you are here for fun and don't want to hear about my little story. With that being said, I hope to chat with a few of you, make a few friends and share some adventures with you! See ya!