FatGirl69's blog post - On my soapbox...

Tuesday, July 25, 2006, 3:56:17 PM

I don't understand why guys get so freaked out when other guys post comments on their pics. I mean, just because a gay man appreciates the way your cock looks doesn't automatically make you gay, too. There are a few MEN on NN who don't run screaming when other guys post tasteful comments on their pics. Of course, I also know of some "men" (who act more like boys) that freak out and pull their pics...even delete their alias and create a new one...whenever guys compliment them on their pics. Yes, I'm sure the comments and PMs may sometimes be pretty graphic but again...so what? It still doesn't make YOU gay! And if the guys proposition you, just tell them "No, thanks."

I'm not a lesbian, but I actually consider it an honor when another woman lets me know that she enjoys looking at my body and appreciates what I've got. Since she's a woman herself and is only attracted to women, she's kind of an expert on the female body...a connoisseur, if you will...so I take it as a true compliment when she lets me know she likes my _______. {fill-in-the-blank}

Just my two cents.....

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Knappster on 25-Jul-06 22:08:04

Has to be said that comments and PM's when your a bloke posting on NN are few and far between (maybe i'm just ugly) so a comment even from a gay can actualy make you feel good about yourself, The ones who run a mile are probably the ones you aren't comfortable with there sexuality. Here speaks a stright bloke, who gets gay PMs & comments.

chargingram on 25-Jul-06 23:57:08

I'm so old and ugly, I don't give a shit who gives me a good comment. They are better than bad comments or no comments. In fact, I rather enjoy them, but you'll never see me sucking any dick or getting but fucked. That shit is just so gay and that is not my style. Have a nice day there Sue, lol

Maize on 27-Jul-06 4:01:49

I have to agree with Knappster that guys hardly get any comments and PMs here, so I'm surprised that someone would be upset at any positive comments they get. On the other hand, I may not be the target audience of your post, given that I'm all up for sex with men anyway. ;)

I do tend to check guys' profile before I leave them a comment. Usually I'll only comment if they indicate that they 'swing both ways' or don't mind comments from men. Once in a blue moon I'll comment if they just don't indicate that they mind. Lots of guys put a, "No comments from men, please," note in their profile and I try to respect that.

dukejohnson on 28-Jul-06 3:58:21

If it weren't for guys' comments, I'd guess that most of my pics wouldn't have any at all! Atleast I'm appealing to someone, eh?

sunflower4u on 30-Jul-06 3:35:21

I think what you've said is so very true. A comment is just simply that ... a comment! :)

WERT7 on 4-Aug-06 6:05:13

im a bi man and i love to get coments from both i want to know what both sexes think and like

milonowraguy on 28-Nov-06 5:40:06

Im greatful for comments from guys or girls , gays or bi or lesbian, if they like what they see then I think its cool that they let you know..

HisSecret on 19-Oct-07 0:17:06

A lot of men are just homo-phobic. Even if you they will tell you they are not. But their actions say otherwise. I must admit I was surprised when I got a PM about my pics from a guy. However I went along with it and asked him what kind of pictures he would like to see. Gay men have good taste, might as tell take some of his recommendations