HisSecret's blog post - On Private Messages

Saturday, November 3, 2007, 12:17:24 AM

I am social in whatever medium I use. One of the reasons why I joined NN was to be social with other adults that are open sexually. As in sex does not make them all uncomfortable.

I have noticed that I get about 1 reply for about every 10 private messages I sent. If I was a horn dog just messaging people saying "LET ME CUM ON YOUR FACE NOW SLUT", it would make sense. But even genuine, "hey welcome to NN" messages with really no hidden agenda than socializing in this environment are met with silence.

Maybe its bad luck, maybe a lot of people make accounts and never check back. In any case, I just felt like voicing my thoughts.

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Others Have Said:

HisSecret on 3-Nov-07 0:19:03

Of course I post this and get a new message from a member I have welcomed and I even got a private pic. Life is ironic at times.

And if you are wondering from whom I got a pic...well I will never tell...its a secret :)

tight_wet_lips on 3-Nov-07 0:26:48

That is why you have Secret in your name...lol

nice bitch on 3-Nov-07 0:57:55

ill reply to msges i always try to no matter wat is typed to me!! But you keep going and eenjoing NN... And welcome to fantacy land of adults !! hugs x

scarylady on 3-Nov-07 1:00:08

Yup NN is great ;)

msmilf2 on 3-Nov-07 1:19:27

you never know if the person posting the pics is the same person in the pics though. sometimes if it's a guy posting his ex or just random pics I bet he won't bother answering

HisSecret on 3-Nov-07 3:56:45

Oh I know what you mean MsMilf2, I will go with the gender of what's posted on the profile. Sometimes though with couples it can get confusing

hapyjacq on 3-Nov-07 4:09:08

some get to many to answer all i think (that's not my problem haha).. if i get a genuine hey that is thoughtful i try to type back.. and did i thank you for your comment on my blog??? kisses to you wtoc

bigtitter86 on 17-Nov-07 6:19:22

I always no matter who they are and stuff reply back or attempt to atleast!! :D