LadyGodiva's blog post - I need your advice

I'm having my doubts about being with D. I think I acted too fast in agreeing to be his girlfriend. First off, he is a nice guy, he enjoys sex and is into swinging.

But

he's assuming a LOT more than he should. I've overheard him say he is planning on me moving in with him later this year. When I said something at a party about wanting to retire and travel, he said we couldn't do that because he's still working.

he calls and texts me constantly. I told him about that in the beginning and he did stop, but not as much as I would like. He texts or calls me EVERY day asking how my day went. I'm not used to all this attention and frankly I think it's overboard. I had plans with a friend to go to the Spurs game this weekend. D knew this and knew it was a guy friend (platonic). He knew we werre going to have lunch and then see the game, so he texted me several times about my plans for the next week. I can't confirm anything, I don't have my planner, and I'm not ready to plan anything for next week.

he has this thing about wanting to fuck me after we've been with another couple or at a party. To me that's just so wrong and a bit territorial. If he wants to fuck me, then do it another time on a date with me! He also has this thing about kissing and touching me in public. I don't mind this at all, but it's EVERY FUCKING TIME. It's so fake and as if he's trying to prove something.

I'm at the point where I am going to break up with him. If I do, I'll be 'single' again and probably won't do much in the lifestyle anymore. That is the ONLY thing I'm not happy about.