LadyGodiva's blog post - Happy New Year - Swinging Style

Our first swinging party was to be the 2000 New Years Party. I had no idea what to wear, or what I'd be doing. Kim (my boyfriend) had been chatting with another couple and they began chatting with me as well and answered all my questions. One thing that I really liked about this group of people was that there were rules to be followed and they basically boiled down to one - the woman always rules. So if she says no, then that's it. So I could be free to do as little or as much as I wanted without fear of being pressured. That put me at ease instantly.

I decided to wear a nice party dress with a hot pink lace slip underneath and a pink thong. I left my tanned legs bare and wore a pair of black strappy high heels. I figured if I got over being so nervous I could strip down in layers bit by bit until I felt at ease.

The party was huge - I think there was 100 couples there. It was at a local hotel conference room. Tables were everywhere, food and drink were spread out on the back walls and the band was getting everyone excited and dancing in the front. We met our online friends and they instantly said we'd have a great time and took us around to meet their friends who they thought we'd be a good match for. They did mention that not everyone in the lifestyle has the same goals and so their will be some that you don't mesh with. We were greeted with open arms, kisses, some quick ass grabbing and lots of friendship. The women were dressed in a variety of clothing - formal gowns, simple dresses, lingerie, slutty stuff all the way down to just thongs. It was all good. The guys were also dressed up/down from tuxedos to thongs. It was truly an ecletic mix of people. All ages too.

I danced with several guys and finally decided to take off my dress. My dance partner took it off for me on the dance floor and we got a lot of cheers when it came off. I kept the lace slip on the entire time, but I did take off the thong later that night. I had a lot of fun bending over and baring my ass to the fellows.

It was a great evening. We wound up sharing a room with the first couple and played with them on the bed. We didn't have sex, but just had lots of foreplay with the others then swapped and fucked our partners. It was exciting and a great introduction to the lifestyle.