LickableBits's blog post - My First RL Domme Session, yes I really did do this one...

Last night I had my first Real Life D/s session. I helped to co-Dom a Daddy's lilone. She had been a very nawty girl, because she wanted to get her Daddy's attention. Well, I can tell you it backfired on her. Now he has been mentoring her and training her for several months, and she is still quite new to it. Last night was her first experience with a Domme, me.

Oh the tears and sobbing she did when her Daddy told her about me. When I entered the hotel room, he had already spent time with her, had spanked and paddled her quite well. She sat there curled in upon herself naked on the king-sized bed. "Paul" introduced me as Mistress Shar and her as "Cat".

I proceeded to empty my bag of goodies and showed Paul what I'd brought and he showed what he had as well. I could see her looking glummer and glummer, face getting red and her eyes tearing up. She kept looking at him beseechingly.

I finally turned to face her and said, "I hear you've been a nawty girl?"

She nodded with lowered eyes and whispered, "Yes Miss."

I had her tell me what she had done to earn this punishment and after she was finished I asked, "You wanted your Daddy's attention, didnt you?"

Again, "Yes Miss"

I nodded and said firmly, "Well...you got his attention alright, but not the kind you were expecting. Am I right?"

She finally looked up, first in his direction then at me, "Yes Miss."

I asked Paul to help me with the restraints, sliding them under the bed. Then I showed Cat the cuffs and let her feel them so she'd know they wouldn't hurt her. I told her to lay down spread-eagle as we put on the cuffs and attached them to the restraints. The whole time we talked to her. Both of us telling her different aspects of the life-style...the do's and don'ts. What to expect, what and when not to accept being dommed by someone. That ultimately she was the one controlling the situation. She had her safe word after all. And that, yes, it all comes down to trust.

Now before I'd gotten there, Paul had told me Cat was hoping she'd get the chance to suck his cock. But there was no way he was going to allow her that reward. Had even thought about having me doing it as additional punishment, but then changed his mind. (DARN!!) He wasn't out to break her, just make sure she understood the consequences of her actions.

So I slid a blindfold mask over her head and then we started. Him and I remained fully clothed, as this would make her feel vulnerable. He grabbed a wooden spoon...and I my leather paddle. Together we swatted and slapped various parts of her, breasts, nipples, pussy, inner thighs, tummy, etc. Sometimes we used the spoon, or paddle or even our hands. I stroked her skin and squeezed, pinched and slapped all over her. Paul got out some clothes pins and clamped her nipples, while I grabbed a rubber band and preceded to snap it on her mound and inner thighs then got closer and closer to her clit, snapping it several times over it. Cat would jerk and strain against the restraints but barely uttered a sound.

Paul chuckled and asked off-handed about agreeing to not give her pleasure. I shrugged as it was up to him. I got more clothes pins and clamped her puffy outer lips, then while he spread them I clamped her clit. Cat jumped and jerked at that. Smiling, Paul then began to pull and manipulate that clit clamp, saying how sensitive she was about it. Soon she was thrashing her head back and forth her hips thrusting, so he slid his finger inside her and urged her to cum. (Guess he changed his mind again...lol) I slapped at her inner thighs as she rode his hand. Very soon her whole body shuddered as she climaxed, still uttering barely a sound. He slid his finger out of her cunt and into her mouth to suck on.

I removed her mask and we sat back and spoke some more to her. Keeping her spread-eagle between us. Occasionally I'd stroke her skin, pinch a nipple or slide my hand between her thighs. I told her to kiss me and the fright on her face! OH MY!!! Tears welled up and spilled over. She looked at her Daddy and begged not to let me. I laughed. Here she'd not uttered as sound as I touched her body but fell to pieces over a little kiss. I just had to say it:

"By the way Cat, I'm not bi. I'm straight."

She practically choked with shock. Then she laughed shakily and asked, "Now has does that work, with all this?" So both Paul and I explained more to her. That sex is sex and you can take pleasure from whomever, wherever and however. Then we proceeded to show her that she could enjoy sex when she has no emotional attachment to someone.

Leaving her mask off I got between her spread legs and began to play with her pussy. Sliding my fingers between her lips...she was soooo wet still...and rubbing her clit. Soon I was pressing two fingers inside her...damn she was tight! I was stroking them in and out of her, my thumb sometimes rubbing her clit, sometimes my left hand smacking it sharply, before rubbing it again. Soon she was thrashing again. I curled my fingers up and stroked over her g-spot, stroking her faster and faster. Her breathing erratic and her body quivering and jerking. I could feel her pussy clenching around my fingers and pulsing as she came. Her Daddy talking to her softly, urging her to let go and cum. Petting her and telling her what a good girl. I let her suck my fingers of her juices as he slipped his finger back in her again and she finally moaned for us.

We released her and all three of us went down to the bar for drinks to give her a little break before we would flip her on her tummy and work her ass. After we went back up to her room, she was given a choice. Either she kiss me willingly or she got my beads up her ass. And again she turned on the water works! (Damn! I didnt think I was that bad to have to kiss!)

She kept her gaze on her Daddy, silently begging, not to make her do either. But he was adamant that this was still a part of her punishment, one or the other. Consider my amusement when she finally chose the kiss but begged to have the mask on again! He looked at me and shrugged, it was up to me. He told her to ask me, not him. So she finally looked up at me and softly begged me for the mask. I considered, then agreed that I'd allow it this once.

So I slid the mask back over her eyes. Then I cupped her face between my hand and raised her face so that I could kiss her lips, parting them and kissing her deeply for a few moments, before settling a gentle peck on her mouth. I took the mask off and hugged her as she cried, telling her it was over.

I began to repack my bag, then turned back to Cat. "One last thing." She looked up at me and nodded.

"I want you to write an essay about this evening. Everything from what happened, how you felt, what you learned, and you send it to your Daddy. It's to be 1000 words. You have until Friday to get it to him."

She laughed and agreed. She still wanted to suck her Daddy's cock but him and I walked out of her room together without looking back.