Okay, since this is a sex community, I have one topic I wish to cover. I have been watching Date Line where they catch sexual predators of xxxxxxxx girls. This group poses as a thirteen year old girl at chat rooms and guys come a runnin'. Many, many guys have been busted and then they get interviewed.
Well, I know that we all label them as sickos. And yes, they have serious problems. I wish to point out though, that almost any man on the planet could end up like them. I wish to point out some ways to avoid being 'one of those guys.'
I think that these guys can be divided into 3 categories. 1) Unhappily married 2) Underacheivers with very low self esteem. 3) Pure evil
I think that a lot of guys end up doing some really fucked up shit because they get married and aren't happy in their marriage. But rather than leave their wife, they stay with her and they feel incredible lonely and perhaps trapped. They become obsessed with finding the love and hot sex that they are not getting at home. Their behavior begins to become deviant.
I recommend that they leave their wives. If a guy wants or plans to leave his wife, and notices that deviant thoughts are taking hold, I recommend that he do what I call 'stripper therapy.' A few visits to a beautiful seductress can be just the thing he needs to walk away from deviancy and his wife. Or, it might even save his marriage, if he can use what he learned at the stripclub to convince his wife to be the kind of woman he needs. There are many possibilities here.
But, it is better to get with some 18 year old (legal) gal, who basically is signing up to be your lover for $20 a song, than to become more deviant and end up preying on girls who don't know better.
Also, if you are in the 2nd class of guys, (under acheivers), then you need to remodel your life, sort of like they do on that show, "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy." Remodel your life so that you can be the kind of man who feels good about himself and who is then capable of attracting any kind of woman he wants.
And finally, the pure evil category, where nothing can be done for them. They just need permanent jail. |