when i began coming to this site, i was just another horny guy looking to hook up. i'm stilll horny, but my views have changed significantly. i equate my experience here to my experience with the Army. when i joined the Army, i thought it was a place for people who could not get real jobs. just a bunch of high school drop outs that just want to have a bunch of kids and have the government pay for them. i was very wrong with that assumption. there are a few like that, but most are very smart and great to be around. not just a bunch of killers. this blog is not about the Army though, it is about all the fine, caring people which i have met here. i was content to stay on the sidelines during my early years here. just perving pics and such. i would go into chat, be welcomed then look for chicks in my area. i never really chatted with anyone. that is until that fateful day when a long time memeber (ya know who ya are) said hello and struck up a conversation. i found that it is possible to come to an adult site where we have the same desires and thoughts, but it doesn't have to lead to us screwing each other. if that is what you are looking for and you find it here, God Bless you. but to me it has become about friendship and a place where i can come and not be judged. i can also share thoughts and feelings and get some wonderful insight and a whole load of encouragement. these people didn't need to take time out of their busy lives to give me a lift, but they did and for that i will be forever greatful. i'm sure that many people would say that chat sites are for losers, but they could not be more wrong. the people i have met here are more real that most of the people that i workk for. no, i am not that naive; i know that there are those who are not what they say they are. but a friend of mine says she's batting about 90%. she has not led me astray here! i trust her judgement implicitly. yes, there has been a lot written lately about faith and trust. for my friends here, i am one who you can put your faith in completely. i know i can do the same with you. don't get me wrong......there are still a couple of my friends here that i wanna "do".............lmfao.......have a great NN day......thank you friends, i salute you
