mistake. when i was trying to help a family. we have a young man who is VERY well taken care of by his girlfriend, the army won't pay cause she is not his wife (if they were married they would put her on orders and pay her to be there) i tried to help the family. the injured soldiers mom supports the girlfriend, but she cannot be paid to stay and help her "man". i have seen wives/husbands run for the hills when an injury occurs and they get paid. this young man's girlfriend is awesome! well, i said in an emergency she could "stay in my place". what i meant is she could stay WITHOUT me here, but it was taken as i would be here. now i have to expalain to his mom what i REALLY meant......ffs!....more explaination later..lol
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