I've honesty seen bigger clits than my soft cock. It pretty much completely disappears during the day. When erect it's around 3 inches with not much more than 1 and a half fingers. I've learnt to accept it so tell me what you honestly think. I never get offended. I know it's small and very unusual and occasionally I get use with a sympathetic lady but most woman need a vibrator to get off as my cock certainly doesnt do that for them. Most are intrigued with how small it is and just play with it like a small toy. One bonus is that everybody can deep throat it without any issues if they want.