I laugh a lot, smile frequently and try to get others to do the same. I try to be creative. I like bright conversation, kindness and thoughtfulness. I am attracted to women with these characteristics. Body shape and size are unimportant compared to the mind. BUT, that said, I do like looking at naked bodies and people having sex. I am a voyeur and exhibitionist. And I do enjoy sex with married women and I don't mind whether hubby is unaware, or standing by the bed taking photos. But at the end of the day, I like variety: of position, of location, of partner.