We are a polite married couple that are having a very good marriage, with humor, smiles and love. Hubby here. Although my wife knows about SOME of my fantasies (submission, wife worship, cuckolding), she doesnt know that I secretely lust for a poly household, with an alpha male. We are VERY vanilla, also sexually, in the behaviour we express as for today. Although the last few weeks we have automatically changed a few things. I started to do most of the housework, pamper her, rubbing her feet, massage her, kiss her, flather her. She has obviously liked it, and have started to show signs of more confidence, and have started to demand a few things from me. She feels more and more secure and confident to this situation. I also lick pussy alot, and I know cum only one time a week. This was my initiative, but she seem to agree to it more, and almost demand it too. This is because I behave much bether when horny and wit a high testosterone level, and I pamper her much more. When she makes me cum as a reward, it is not always by fucking, and she seem to maybe like the humiliation factor. (I doubt she has is naturally dominant though, she is very cute, shy, smiling and polite)...Now, my theory is that an alpha male could be on top of our arrangement. He could fuck her as much as he likes. He wouldnt care about bad behavour after cumming. And she would get the cock she deserves, and feeling fulfilled and satisfied. The boss would have me do the hard work (massages, feet rub, etc +housework and a job to have economy for this household). This way, everybody would be happy (I would be happy though seeing my wife get everything she deserves and through the humiliation factor). The alpha male does excactly what he feels like, he is completely free to do what he wants. And he has the final word in all mathers (also wether I get to fuck my wife sometime).