Sugarmomma's blog post - Simply put.

So there is a lot of name calling going around these days on NN. There is a lot going on period.

I have spent a long time fighting and getting myself to a place where I am good, I have myself in the right state of mind and I refuse to let any person knock me down ever again.

I have made choices many would not have, I have made choices that I felt were needed to be made, I made choices for reasons some people apparently can not understand, ... when asked why I still have someone on my list when that person is friends with someone else, but you removed me?...I think it's a little obvious that it's NOT about who you are friends with, it's about WHO YOU ARE,.. and what you have done to put me in the position to remove you. That person in fact proved to himself that it's not about who he is friends with,.. but apparently can't even see it.

So please,.. before you JUMP to any conclusion,.. think..

If you can't understand my ways, and my reasons, don't assume,.. and don't judge because more then likely you have NO idea.

I am me, because I can be.

Sugar