I know I have been gushing about my new girlfriend a lot lately but she just gave me some news that is so huge,so big and so good I just had to share it.

She told me that she is open to a 3some with another girl and me. Not only open but interested. She wants a girl with big tits. and she wants to watch me fuck her.

I have truly won the awesome girlfriend lottery. I love my life haha. Hey V, when you read this I just wanna say thanks for everything

I know I just updated yall a few days ago but I wanted to give you another one. Things are going great so far with my new girlfriend (wow its been a long time since I have been able to say that lol) and I really like her. Of course she is young and her priorities in life may change but she really smart!

She is doing the Colombian version of a double major at her university, and she has her head screwed on right. She is really mature for her age and she knows what she wants (which will change) but that is ok!

At her age I had no fucking clue what I wanted lol. Also, we actually have real things in common besides just great sex. For example, she knows who Tom Petty is and she likes him! I mean she doesnt just have a passing interest in Classic Rock, she is really into it! It is so amazing too me haha.

The mistake I made with my ex was thinking I could change myself to be what she wanted ( I couldnt) and thinking that because we had great sex and initially she was nice to me that our relationship would work (it didnt)

With my new girlfriend I have made sure to question her. Does she like to travel? check! her hobbies? check. her values. check. does she want kids? all that basic stuff I ignored with my ex. So I know that we are at least compatible on a basic level.

Did I mention we have great sex also? hehe.... I am happy for the first time in a while. We arent rushing this too fast but I am feeling positive about this one even with the age gap.

I just wish she would speak less English to me and more Spanish lol.

So I am actually now dating the hottie from my previous sex blog. We had such great sex we decided to see if we really or liked each other for more than sex and we did!

After the last disaster of a relationship I had, I am taking this one slowly but she is nice and I will keep you posted. There is an age difference between us but I dont care

We are getting along swimmingly so far but, I have been out of real dating game for almost a year now so wish me luck!

So I wrote a big long detailed blog about this amazing story but literally right before I pushed "Add this blog" the whole damn thing got erased! I am so angry right now I am not going to type the whole thing again so here is the cliff notes.

Last night I had sex with a beautiful 19 year old Colombian girl in the same bed as my friend having sex with his fuck buddy (who I have also had sex with lol, just not last night).

It was the most amazing sex I have had in a long long time and I don't think anything like that will ever happen to me again. Our sex was better than theirs

Ok there is many many more details but I cant be fucked to type them all again so there you have it. -Ty

I remember once that Bustygalnz (a dear friend of mine on here and who I have met in person) said that maybe she just wasn't right for relationships. Maybe some people are not built to be in relationships and just doomed to be single forever.

I think I agree with her. My relationship is now over. again. Now forever I will be that guy who got engaged to be married and then wasn't.

It really is quite a long story with lots of complications but here is the short of it. We ended our relationship because she couldn't understand that I still wanted to travel once in a while (with her and her son of course) she couldn't understand that I DO value family and being a responsible father BUT I also believe that having a social life is ok. I believe having a life outside of family is also permissible as long as you come home at the end of the day to your wife/husband and you still love them and still pay the bills.

So, lets review January shall we..... 1. My grandfather died. 2. Walt (Bernie) died. 3. Mont (Greg) died. 4. My relationship died. again. I really did love her.... I really honestly tried. I tried hard but I just couldn't change enough of my personality to make her happy.

I am getting more and more convinced that I will have tried the world by the time I am 80 (if I make it that long) and seen and done amazing things but I will die a lonely old man with no family to speak of

First Walter67 died then Vivi and I broke up (we are trying to get back together, we still love each other but I just dont know if it is going to work or not...) then I found a great new apartment to live in (since Vivi and I wont be living together anymore) it was such a great price I couldnt believe it! But, that price turned out to be per week NOT per month

Well today one of my good friends, her dad died I was sad about that. I got even more sad when I received the email from my mom saying my grandpa died today. I am in Colombia unable to attend the funeral.

13 has always been my unlucky number and it is only Jan.

I have been taking Bernie's (aka Walter67) death really hard. We were good mates and actually I lived at his place in Oz for a while. It just sucks also this happened: I loved Vivi so much and I was a week away from getting married and then it all went to shit. This is the second time this has happpened to me but this is the closest I have come to getting married. I am now a professional at almost getting married lol. My friend ben flew all the way from Germany to spend less than a week with me, just 5 days. Once he got here the big problems started. She felt that I didnt care about her and I only wanted all my time with him. She was really hateful to him and even accused us of being gay. I tried for so many months to modify my behaviour to be the man she wanted. I wanted to be happy with her but she wanted me to change more than I could change.

The last time I thought I was close to getting married I tried to change her. I thought I could change her or time would improve her behaviour and it didnt. This time I tried to change myself to fit what she wanted and I couldnt. if I ever get close to getting married again I am only going to marry a girl that I dont have to change and who doesnt want to change me.

I thought I had a traveled enough, done enough, seen enough and I could settle down. But Vivi's life choice is family and only family. She has no friends or social life and I tried to live like that but I cant. When someone cant accept my friends or that I want to spend time with them then its just over. I tried so hard for this relationship I really loved her and still do but we just dont work.

Now I am that guy. You know the guy who was engaged and it didnt work out....

2013 has been shit so far

I got engaged last night

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