Was sitting here thinking which is what i do when im bored out of my mind... and it occured to me that there are so many married people on this site... yes some do have it written on there profiles while others seem to feel the need to hide it until you talk to them and they admit it ..or just plain out lie...
But then i think why are these married people on this site? and even people with boyfriends / girlfriends..
It appears to me that those marriage vows and commitments that you promise in front of the church in front of friends family and god are really not important anymore...
Traditional Wedding Vows 2:
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.
Traditional Wedding Vows 1:
I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.
I have asked a few guys that i know that are married as to why they are here and many said that its coz their wives dont give them sex... hmmm so whatever happened to for better or worse .. to love and to cherish to be faithful... their comment to this was..im not cheating on her .. well yeah you are ..
With regard to human relationships, couples tend to expect sexual monogamy of each other. If so, then cheating commonly refers to forms of infidelity, particularly adultery.[5] However, there are other divisions of infidelity, which may be emotional. Cheating by thinking of, touching and talking with someone you are attracted to may be equally damaging to one of the parties.. taken from wiki definition of cheating...
defintion of infidelity- In many intimate relationships in most cultures there is usually an express or implied expectation of exclusivity, especially in sexual matters. Infidelity (colloquially known as cheating) most commonly refers to a breach of the expectation of sexual exclusivity.
defintion of emotional intimacy-Emotional intimacy can be expressed in verbal and non-verbal communication. The degree of comfort, effectiveness and mutual experience of closeness might indicate emotional intimacy between individuals. Intimate communication is both expressed (e.g. talking) and implied (e.g. friends sitting close on a park bench in silence). Emotional intimacy depends primarily on trust, as well as the nature of the relationship and the culture in which it is observed. Depending on the background and conventions of the participants, emotional intimacy might involve disclosing thoughts, feelings and emotions in order to reach an understanding, offer mutual support or build a sense of community. Or it might involve sharing a duty, without commentary.
now i know that im going to be slammed for this blog and personally i dont care... i need to ask why be with someone when you arent commited to them...i know to me i value a marriage and its committment that you make in front of friends family and god...
whatever happened to faithfullness and loyalty and honesty and being 100% committed to the one you love...guess it no longer exists
The world has become a place where you cant trust or believe anything anymore...this sadens me great deal ...
anyway... troll away coz i know its going to happen...
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