XX-Access's blog post - I'm not "looking", but if I was (which I am not)

Wednesday, August 13, 2008, 9:46:46 PM
... Well, I wouldn't actually know who and what I'm looking for.

I have to admit that, whenever I see comments on my pictures here or another site I post on (about as often), I check the commenter's profile. Age, gender, location, preferences... I can't help but look for those who fit my "compatibility range". And what for ? Nothing ! I know that I just don't have the option of ever entertaining such relationships. My life isn't set up for it.

But even if I could...

I just don't think that I'd ever really be happy. No matter how beautifully things would work out.... I can't help being miserable. Filled with hope and desire for something... better. Meaning. Purpose. Happiness. But that's just an illusion, far from reality.

And so I will forever mourn the loss of what I never had.. because it just doesn't exist.

Comments

Others Have Said: 
mdguy on 13-Aug-08 21:50:17
I'm starting to feel the same.

mdguy on 13-Aug-08 21:50:57
But... I'm not ready to mourn or lament, yet.

XX-Access on 13-Aug-08 21:55:50
You have a whole lot more reasons to hope, at least.