Love this song...heard it on the radio earlier so I had to see the video.

Have to prepare food and watch "Being Human" and "Lost Girl." (I wonder why so many females seem to prefer vamps over werewolves. With the exception of Damon in "The Vampire Diaries" I find the werewolf characters so much sexier.)

I don't wear these often cause they're always climbing up where they don't belong.





I love the lace-up detail in the front.


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I was reading one of my favorite relationship blogs from my FB. (Okay, it's the only one I read with any frequency.) It was about natural consequences, and dealing with people who generally rarely-if ever-suffer the natural consequences of their negative behavior. Then her articles on compatibility, type and common interests caught my eye. Which is funny, because I was thinking about what my "type" is earlier.

I don't really have a set "type." Money, having a great job doesn't matter. Level of education doesn't matter. Looks don't last. And someone's ethnic background isn't important to me, either. Having values, though, does matter. And more important, that they are values I share. My type is someone who has integrity, is emotionally connected,, and who's really getting to know me for me. And they're not trying to fight being a decent person in a decent relationship. There seems to be a lot of people who are confused as to what "common ground" is and over-valuing the wrong things while under-valuing the important things. No matter what interests and likes you share (or how amazing the sex may be) if someone is incompatible with your happiness, sense of self, and your self esteem, you are not compatible!

Something else caught my eye. Something I've often wondered about. Why is it that "casual" is a bad word when it comes from a woman? Apparently, it hurts their ego. They like to feel like we want the sun, moon, and stars from them. So it's just not as much fun if a woman says that's all she wants or needs from him. That explains why one man I was seeing got so upset with me when I referred to what we were doing as a booty-call. Not because he wanted to be in a real, committed relationship with me ever, but because he wanted ME to want all of that from him. Casual, no-strings sex only works with one-night stands. I don't like having to play games and follow all these unwritten rules, although I've got that one-night stand down pat. (Don't ask, don't tell, just live in the moment and enjoy it for what it is.) That's not what I'm looking for at this point in my life, though, so I think I'll stick with my toys. (And that way I know for sure I won't be disappointed!)

So what, if I never felt like this before
I've also never felt so insecure
So it doesn't really matter then
Why we never had a beginning
Just a long, drawn-out ending
Or why you decided that,
right from the start.

Home-made corn beef hash



Reubans...what I had for dinner.

My favorite Sade song.

Exercise equipment but I think they look like they're for something else.

Was going to run errands this afternoon, but my bestie called...she wants me to come over later, for company and help organizing and stuff...so I figured I'd enjoy the last half hour of my solitude while it's there to enjoy. (Batteries, on my shopping list...along with pumpernickel bread.)

Not a Brittney fan, but I like this song. Although after seeing this video, it's never going to sound the same. Silly video, but god I love her shoes!

Relieved my therapist's demonstration was a chart. Showing how we experience things by any number of our five senses or by our feelings/thoughts. And about moving towards things we want, and moving away from the things we don't want. The latter is where I tend to use some type of distraction to avoid things that agitate or otherwise upset me. Which isn't a bad thing. Only when I 'm using distractions to keep from doing things I need to do, or ought to do.

I've been wanting reubens for a while so I made a corn beef brisket today. But I forgot sauerkraut and swiss cheese plus the grocer didn't even have pumpernickel. I don't really care for corn beef but I love reubans and corned beef hash is good. (Although I forgot eggs as well.) I've been forgetting a lot of things lately. Probably because I'm a tad bit stressed and feeling overwhelmed.