artworks's blog post - Should I invite friends to NN?

Monday, March 27, 2006, 5:36:35 AM

A platonic female friend of mine came over a few weeks ago to see my new place. I tried to clean before her visit. In a rush I stuffed a few dirty clothes in my armoir, all rolled up in a tangled ball.

As I was showing her the bedroom I felt compelled to open up the armoir though I don't know why. Thinking about the dirty ball of clothes, I naturally opened up the other door of the armoir so she wouldn't see what a slob I really am. She glanced in, then looked up to the top shelf and stopped. What she saw was a bottle of astro-glyde, a stack of porn magazines and my quite extensive collection of porn videos. She looked up there for quite some time, but never said a word. It was obvious what she was looking at. When she finally looked away I quickly closed the armoir door and hurried her off to another room.

What do you think was on her mind as she stared at my masturbation supplies? Was it a turn on for her? Would she have been confused? She didn't seem disgusted, so I don't think it was that. What do you think?

Also, I've been thinking about telling her and some other friends that I post pictures of myself here. I'm not trying to seduce any of them, but it would be a huge turn on if I knew they were at least interested in having a look. Do you think I should do it? If so, should I do it annonymously or directly? What would your response be if a *friend* sent something like that to you? I'd really like to know.

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dandelionwine on 27-Mar-06 14:31:50

I have a few thoughts on this:
I think that were she uncomfortable or disgusted with your collection she would have turned away or maybe made some sort of joke. That she stood wordlessly and looked suggests to me that either she was waiting for you to make a comment or she was trying to communicate so level of interest. If I were attracted to a guy and found his collection as she did, I would show some interest in it by either looking or making a suggestive comment. Bottom line: maybe this shouldn't remain platonic between the two of you.

Regarding telling her about NN... since she seemed interested in your supplies, she may like seeing your pix. The only risk I can see is if she really has no interest - even knowing about your pix might gross her out. (I can think of a few guys with whom I am friendly, but I would feel yuck if I knew about or saw their pix here.) Hope this helps.

LeFeeVerte on 28-Mar-06 5:20:22

Art, you've got to weigh the options. how will this affect your relationship with her or any others you choose to tel about NN. Some people get freaked out because they are insecure about their own sexuality. others are closet nymphs that need a little push in the right direction. and what affect will this have on your "real relationship" hope it works for you babe. wel only live once, might as well enjoy it