is to be misunderstood.. when i ask a question.. or when i share my point of view with someone.. if that person considers that i m seeking things behind that.. it makes me feel so bad.

one of the most important elements in life.. is communication.. how we communicate with others.. good communication always avoids misunderstandings. i believe good communication requires obvious explanations.. i guess i gotta work on that more....

for example if i ask some one "what s your favorite tv show.." i must explian why i have asked that question too.. i guess that s the best way to prevent myself from being misunderstood

[it s barbarian.. how can people be so merciless.. i hate it.. i condemnt terror.. it seems no place on earth is safe and every country can be victims of terror attacks.

i worry sometimes.. what if it was me.. or here. i dont care too much about losing my own life because of that.. i got no such fear.. but what if it was someone i care for. a friend. a relative.. someone very close for me.. that would cause a huge gap in life.. may god bless us all

some of you may agree and some think that it is stupid actually.. but this site.. i see here as a family.. especially the journals. i mean.. that we share things .. we dont even tell our parents or relatives sometimes.. aint that right?

do you trust people in here? trust enough so that you always welcome their feedback.. comments and opinions about your journal posts? well i do

by the way.. do you have haagen dazs.. and gloria jeans in usa and canada too? well over here.. starbucks is considered a fairly expensive places.. what makes it unique is.. the atmosphere.. the way people act and seem. it s surely a unique cafe to be at...


after work today i m going there.. i d like to find out your approach to spending some of yourfree time at places.. do you usually have a drink at the same place every week... or you are willing to discover new places each time you can find the chance to go out ?

and just. how do you react.. if you find out some one at the cafe is staring at you? does it depend on the guy/girl?

ohh .. for me it s february.. lol.. no wonder i ll go for some action in july.. unless it will be too late

just wanted to let you know that.. i hope i m welcomed here.. i dont have any nude phots.. but.. it must not be necessary to be here.. ican be here for the blogs too right? to learn what others are doing.. and to let others know what i m doing.. i hope i m actuallly welcomed in here.. thanks for readin
best wishes from istanbul

hi friends.. how s your weekend going so far.. do you plan to go out? those who are married.. are you planning something like a trip?

well me.. as for me.. i have set up a goal for myself.. saving money is such a wonderful thing i m aware of that but with my income.. well i m not rich but i m not poor either.. with my income i believe that the best thing to do for now is to save money for a west europe trip.. in december or january i believe i can be able to manage that.. that s what it seems like... i have not chosen the destination yet.. it may be france.. or holland..


how about you .. if anyone would like to share their comin up vacation place.. please discuss. maybe you can give me more ideas...

that s what i gotta do to forget the bad memories .. the hard timees i ve gone thgrough.. to set up goals..and act.. do things.. to achieve goals..
thanks for reading.......