beachdreamz's blog post

Thursday, November 1, 2007, 10:38:39 PM

I have something thats been running through my mind and seeing as open is NN I think I may even get some honest answers even if its only from a bunch of pervs.

When a girl (or a guy I guess) is single how many partners is ok. Wait let me rephrase that. I don't mean at a time (as in group sex) or even one guy on different nights. I am single and have been dating a lot lately. There is one I want but I don't think he wants me and I am getting tired of waiting. But I really don't want to jump from partner to partner, but how do you scratch that itch when you only go out with each guy 1-2 times?

I guess basically what I want to know is how do I fill that need (keep in mind,if it was my way I would be getting some at least every day)yet not become a slut or someone I am ashamed of? Playing on my own can only take care of so much

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tight_wet_lips on 1-Nov-07 22:46:05

Beachie, Are ya happy? Are you comfortable doing what you want? Do you feel good dating here and there..or do you feel good going out all of the time and being free?

Think about it? Are you comfortable doing what you want? I say go out....and who cares what others think. You are young, beautiful, sexy, vibrant and fun. Why keep that inside?

msmilf2 on 1-Nov-07 23:03:07

If you want sex and someone else thinks that makes you a slut then fuck 'em. Who doesn't want sex??? Don't let slut be a bad word. ;) Have sex with him and then tell him you'll call him when you get around to it, lol. ;)

NoSecrets on 2-Nov-07 0:59:54

We all have needs, nothing to be ashamed of there.

I understand what you're saying though and maybe you can have a special "friend" ? Someone who's D & D free that won't read too much into anything? Maybe someone who's in the same boat as you? Wants a strictly physical relationship and understands you are looking for more elsewhere?

That's prob easier said then done but it's all I could come up with :)

Otherwise you can always come visit me and be my slut ;o)~~~ I won't tell :O)

juicy on 2-Nov-07 1:44:29

tough call. Keep in mind you aren't in high school anymore and as long as you are "safe" it shouldn't matter.

clittylicker on 2-Nov-07 7:25:35

Well, for what its worth, I agree with MsMILF. A guy with multiple partners is a stud(good?) while a woman is a slut(bad?) Go figger. Dont let others judge u, be happy.

LUNNA on 2-Nov-07 11:06:29

beachy.....

just remember that you are the only one that needs to know how many guys you sleep with......

well and all of US too of course!! hehe

bday456 on 4-Nov-07 14:15:43

The sweetest girl I ever knew had like 35 partners in the two years I knew her. Its just sex. As long as your safe about it, fuck your brains out...lol

Dream_Angel on 5-Nov-07 0:03:42

Just being safe is the most important thing... and if you don't want others to know ur bizness, don't sleep with guys that hang out in the same groups... Other than that.. HAVE FUN... and Screw those who judge....not literally... figuratively!

JJ76 on 5-Nov-07 3:11:02

ahh who is counting the stats? we are about the same age..its just sex..we are a different generation, we can pull it off. if you really dont care about the double standard, then fuck it..do what you want

mortadella5553 on 14-Nov-07 2:17:02

well--- If you think you will be looking back at this part of your life with lots of regrets about what you ARE doing, or are NOT doing, then make adjustments. Balance what makes you happy now, with your view of your future happiness. Regretting what you didn't do can be just as hard as regretting what you did do. And yeah there is a double standard about sex- right or wrong it persists. Probably a much higher percentage of men would have trouble forming a life relationship with a widely experienced woman than the opposite. No data just a guess. Rent the movie "Defending Your Life", is is about living with regret, made me think a little diffeently. LUNNA is right- not everybody NEEDs the 100% truth, and sometimes it onlu hurts. Sorry I wasn't very funny-so spank me-PLEASE!