My pleasure is when I give a woman pleasure, but more so when that woman is very obviously behaving in a superior way. She is in charge, she is in control, I do what she permits me to do. She is haughty; she is proud and arrogant – aware of her self worth and knowing that her partner is there for one thing - to please her. It is not necessarily overt domination, but she is obviously in charge, controlling the moment. What excites me so much is her pose. She is always upright, towering over me, aware of the power of her body and in particular her pussy. She is always ‘above’ me in some way as I worship her body. I am naked, you are dressed or partially dressed. High heels make you taller than me. Both these aspects add to the sense of your total superiority over me. You are standing, I am kneeling, my eyes in-line with your pussy, you looking down at me. If you are sitting, I'm kneeling before you. You stand, sit on my face, you smother me with your sex, you are in control! It is you who guides me to your pussy, telling me to lick her there, where to lick and if if it is to be that other special place to show complete subservience. When there is penetration, you always on top – fucking me not the other way round. Very simply, adoration of my partner’s pussy and bum if she permits is so important to my sexual well-being. Both these parts of my partner’s body are the objects of my desire. To see, feel smell and taste her wetness is the most special thing in the world. It is in my mind “serving” my partner. And how better to show absolute devotion to her femininity than to lick her anus. The only way this pleasure can be heightened by a 1000% is if I am being I am being abused.