I am a successful, financially independent small business owner. I am also in a long term relationship, which happens to be an open marriage. I am cerebral and then physical when it comes to matters of connection. Passionate and Compassionate fun guy who is looking for a great companion. Age does not matter as trust and chemistry and attraction and mutual respect and love are some of the things that matter. Does Sapiosexual come to mind? At first friendship matters and it still is the cornerstone of any relationship and the rest comes along on it's own. I love driving on back roads and portobello mushrooms -mmmmm - and the movie Death at a Funeral. I am also very into foreplay and cuddling after sex -mmmmm - that is really sweet and so is the psychology behind it. I also love hiking, walking, mostly anything that can keep me out and about. I also love massages. Well, how about that? Oh, before I forget, the penchant for buying a Harley is still in me. I hope I do get to do it before it is too late. (specially the V-Rod)