male part of a couple. Wife used to "date" and I enjoyed watching. Fair warning, if i'm signed on here, i'm masturbating, no longer get any sex... Well, bit of an update. Still no sex with wife and i am, as always hornier than ever. Wife (she's caught me masturbating a few times) became alarmed at how much i masturbate and had me see a shrink. Didn't really care to go but she said she'd feel better about it if i did. Well, several sessions and mucho $$$ later the shrink tells me her diagnosis is that i'm a sex addict who's dealing with that through masturbation, she has provided me with a plan to cut back to a degree. That isn't working real well, but i no longer masturbate when wife is home, but she's gone alot lol. My other issue is all my masturbating seems to be contributing to erectile dysfunction, my penis only seems to go to 50 or 60% erect when i play with it these days, maybe 4" long. Without medication i definitely am not hard enough to penetrate or maintain my erection in a woman. That would concern me more except it's been 5 years and i doubt i'll have sex again in this lifetime anyway.