In my childhood was observed clearly in clothing: men wear trousers, skirts women.
Eventually I discovered the correct compartment in Mother's wardrobe. It was fascinating. There were plenty of stumps, underwear, bras, garters. At the time, just tights came into fashion, and this I found here.
Strangely, I found these things much better than that what you want to attract as fellow. So I tried something from time to time (unlikely, that my mother should have noticed nothing ...) and some tights certainly changed in my inventory.
Later, I saved my pocket money and bought what I liked, I was honest.
Later I shot myself with my lingerie. Some old black and white photographs I have found, that must have been sometime in the 80s.