We're looking for a bi guy or couple with a bi guy to join us. He is very bi and looking to have that in our play. She will tell you the attention will mostly be on him, not her. Our ideal person or couple is very open minded and laid back. Plays well with others. He should be very bi or even gay but doesn't mind my wife being involved even if only with me. Wife is straight but will play some with a lady who plays with her. We aren't worried about age and size but we don't play with anyone younger than about the early 30s.