d_ashley's blog post - I wonder...wed. 2:06 pm

Wednesday, January 18, 2006, 7:05:53 PM
ok heres another brain release...
this wonderment has been rolling around in my head for the past few weeks and it seems to be getting worse around here that women are being subjected to rude and abusive comments and messages from men...now Im no phycolo...err phycho...aw forget it a shrink, yet I am going to wonder about this "behavior" that has developed here on th net
as I read ever so often now from women about how they are removing their pics or are leaving this site for the reason that the crap is just too much to take...and so I have this sympathy that goes out to these women just because Im a person with respect and appreciation that I can now enjoy the net with all the rewards of viewing womens bodies without having to either visit the strip clubs and spend money or get a magazine and spend money or visit the video store that contained the video booths and for a quarter view a vid. for about three minutes...and once again spend money...as that was all there was back then when I became a man of legal age, and so after almost thirty years has passed the sexual confines of getting to view women has now passed on until it has become free for the viewing here on the net...yet there are paysites and paysites and paysites of women that men can join and explore with all its grandure and fanfair...but for me Im content on getting what I can see from the home pages and snippets of photos that tease a person into joining...guess that sort of goes back to my early days as how much imagination could I comeup with when I look at just a nude form in a seductive pose, and so I have come to appreciate what I can get without spending a dime. wink I can remember back to a time that what I believe was the dawning of the amature woman when this mag. began publishing its amature section with photos sent in from average women from all over, and so it just grew and grew from that time on into other mags. and into videos until it is now here on th-net as well. and so with all that in mind I can say that what I believe is happening to these men who say are probably mostly in there twenties and thirties is that they are a different sort as they have been allowed to view womens bodies more abundantly throughout there lives and so with this kind of exposure that they have been going through probably since teenage or dare I say before puberty is that these men are the sadcases of there own full time exposure to women, and so they have become frustrated that there isnt more that they can see to make the views of women as in a some what "fresh" or "challenging" nature to what has now become everyday "stuff" to look at for them...you know what Im saying here?? its the opinion that if you are subjected to something that is good all the time then it sort of becomes boring or desensitized after awhile so then in order to get that sense of "stimulation" back then one must continue to seek out more and more of what they have not seen yet in order to get that fresh or challenging feel to it all. more like desensitizing the sexual appetite of this man. hense the frustration that they have now come to expierience...and so once they have been desensitized with all this grandure and fanfare that is on the net they then look and find the site that is of the "amature" woman being with everday women from all over and then they are disappointed that it is not what they are trying to achieve with their own attempts at getting that feeling back again, and so they settle here after what they believe is the end of the road to their search and so they begin to let out all the frustrations that they have spent years building up in trying to search for more stimulating and fresh challenges to their sexual viewing of women...and so since this is a site of everyday women that does allow comments from them since none of the other paysites and videos and mag. dont have this option, then they seek relief that they can now let it all out with this pent up anger thus never in their own minds realizing that they are upsetting all the others to which they are issuing their anger towards, in being rude and abusive...'cause for them seeing that there is a way for them to let it out in comments to others is what they now feel is their own right since they are being denied the ever so thirst for fresh and challenging views of women. thus the hurting of others is now the new avenue that they must follow and in so doing get the same stimulations to their brain that they used to get with viewing of women...so all they have done is change course to get what the brain is starved for and that is the chemical high or rush in what they have run out of as from the other, since it has been found that the chemical in the brain that triggers the fight or flight emotion, is the same chemical that triggers the arousal or sexual stimulations in the brain as well...and so if they should only stop and think for a minute to see that they have been now simply just been through it all and that its just not working for them anymore then they need to realize is that all they have to do is just simply stop and give it a rest for awhile and allow the desensitized brain become aware of what it is missing later on, after giving it a rest...and then they will come to appreciate once again what it is that they do basically enjoy out of women and that is the basic idea that they are nude. for like they say absence makes the heart grow fonder. and so here with all the women that I see that are being hurt by these men I can trully say that I understand, as I have come to see it here in my wonderment of this behavior...and so with these men all I can say is that they are the product of their own thirst for more until they reach the end of it all, thus the frustrations becomes unchecked. so ladies dont allow yourselves to be harmed by what some guy says as long as you have the knowledge to see that the motives are somewhat lost of how this guy is just not understanding in how to deal with this in the simple fact that he must learn to allow just alittle of his stimulations to be appreciated at a time, and not to go on and on until his thirst for more has reached an end. Im sorry to offer this site as an "end of the road" way of looking at this behavior, and that the viewing of everday women is very stimulating and at least the top of the erotic/sensual chain...but I am trying to rationalize the frustrations of men who have ended up here just because this site has the option to comment...and all the other sites will not....sooo like I've offered before in my blog is...heres lookin at-ya kid. and I hope that ya'll are feeling fine. wink
end of brain release...he,he looks more like a brain fart dummy...hey dave, you see that can of whoop-ass over there??...yea...go and bring it here so that I may open it up on you ok?...wrong can you idiot! spinach was just for popeye the sailor...get me th-one that says...daves ass in MINE!! on it...my nerves. seeya for now, David.

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MissP on 18-Jan-06 19:14:48
gawd strewf dashley.... you don't make it easy to read! But you'd taken the time to write it so I took the time to read it and I think you have an interesting and valid point.
I'm just glad the nasty ones are so few and far between!
xx

Tilac Girl on 19-Jan-06 10:10:22
I agree with Miss P. Very thoughtful in more ways than one.
I took my profile down two times because of jerks. When I came back the third time I immediately began to get nasty letters about why I changed my name.
Anyhow, I decided to not let the minority scare me and, for the most part, I have learned to handle or ignore demanding rude people.
Thanks again for your blog.

cdnrob on 21-Jan-06 17:32:19
I know what you mean about abusive behaviour on this forum and on the net in general. It really makes you wonder about people sometimes and where the he** their heads are at, or what planet their from. So you don't like someone's pics. Fine. Don't look at them. But why must these idiots, and I'm being polite in calling them that, make rude, childish, ignorant comments or send people the same type of stupid emails. On the whole I've enjoyed my time her on NN. There are some really nice people on the site. I enjoy looking at the pictures, primarily the men's being gay myself, but as Miss P says, thank goodness the nasty ones are far and few between. Btw, love your pics.

nutty_chicklette on 23-Jan-06 19:59:30
I have a feeling some of the men and women on here think that just because we post our pics up on NN that somehow we arent respectable people that somehow we are just pieces of meat or loose or looking to get laid or something. I know all of us come from all walks of life and different circumstances but all of us male and female deserve to be respected. Thanks for posting this blog Ashley, hugs Nutty