fucknjerk's Blog

A fellow NNer, after seeing my pic with an O-ring on my nipple, told me about a company that sells these fantastic nipple suction cups. I've tried the snake-bite kit kind of suction cups and they were too rough. These give a most delicate but effective suction to the nipples. I've had mine for three days and my nipples stay very sensitive. While I have them on, my nipples are much larger, and you can see from my pics that they are larger than average to begin with. When I take them off my nipples don't remain increased in size for long but WOW... they are soooo sensitive. If I wear them a while before going to work I'm very conscious of my shirt rubbing my nipples all day long and to squeeze my nipples while wearing them just about makes me cum. My nipples are sensitive anyway but ever so much more so after using these toys. I really appreciate nudone telling me about them. I'm already addicted to them.

Have you ever noticed that the only guys who write erotic stories are the ones whose wives are "stunning" and "turn heads" everywhere they go and have size 34C, perky breasts and "long legs" and "tight asses", and are just generally "drop dead gorgeous"? I love to read erotica. I quite often find that having a writer describe someone to me detracts from my enjoyment of the story. I'm fully capable of mentally filling in the physical details as I read a description of two or more people sharing physical pleasures; the characteristics an author describes may not be as exciting as the specifics my mind provides. I also like to write erotica. I have posted stories on this website as well as at least three others; in them I describe the action, the interplay of two or more characters, not their physical characteristics. My purpose in writing is partly to give readers an exciting experience; I want guys to get hard or women to get wet reading the stories. I assume each reader will imagine the physiques that most excite them, that he or she is not going to imagine bodies that turn them off. Most of my stories are based on my wife's experiences with other men. I don't need to describe her or her partners; you will see in your mind what excites you. I wish all erotic authors would cease describing characters; because so many describe their characters the same way, the stereotype has become unbelievable.

When I see a pic of fucking, I find that the caption on the pic has a lot to do with my reaction to it. If the caption tells me that it's hubby and wife fucking, I may still like the pic but it's not yearly as exciting as when I'm told it's hubby's friend fucking the wife or a guy from a bar fucking her or wife's friend fucking the hubby. I guess it's the fact that husbands and wives are supposed to fuck whereas hubby or wife fucking someone else is more illicit. If the same pic was posted twice, once with the caption that it was husband and wife and the other time with the caption that either one was with someone they weren't married to, I'm sure I'd find the second version much more exciting. Girlfriend/boyfriend labeled pics, likewise, are not as exciting as pics indicating that one is not the boyfriend or girlfriend. Anyone else have the same reaction?

An occasional person in a PM to me will make some comment about hoping that I don't mind that they are perving to my pics. I appreciate their concern for my feelings but my objecting to their getting excited looking at my pics would be much like the guys in past years who claimed they bought Playboy to read the articles rather than look at the pics. I post pics for two reasons: one,the idea of being naked for people around the world to see excites me; and two, I hope that others will be excited by what they see. No one is going to excite everyone but everyone will excite somebody. If my pics excite you for any reason, then I've fulfilled half my purpose in posting. I'm always glad to hear that I excite someone, that my pics make you wet or hard. Look all you like; fantasize all you like. If you care to PM me, we can compare fantasies.

I'm always a bit surprised when I get an extremely negative reaction to a pic that I post, especially one that's obviously based on prejudice. With the wonderful variety of content of the pics and videos, I just imagine that everyone who comes here to look is open-minded enough to enjoy what they like and pass over the rest. Most of the negative comments I see... on my and other's pics... are concerned with being gay. Obviously most people like the mm pics or pics of male ass play; you notice that the mm pics always have high numbers of hits. The pic of mine that someone called "gay crap" is one of my more popular pics. But, I'm sure there are negative comments to the overweight people, older people, the interracial posters, and any other group to which someone could object. There are a number of general types of pics that I don't like to see... water sports, scat, piercings, tattoos... but I don't open the thumbnail for a closer look and I certainly don't fuss at people for posting them. I just pass them by. On the other hand, I DO try to let people know that I really like a pic, especially people who repeatedly post pics that I enjoy. You know the old Thumper rule: "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothin' at all."

In chatting and emailing with guys on this and other sites, I quite often find that men develop a bi-curiosity around or just after age 50. I've always wondered why that is, why that particular time. Frequently, they'll mention that their wives are no longer interested in sex while they, themselves, have not had any decline in interest in sexual pursuits. Do guys start to fantasize about sex with other men and in some cases have sex with other men because they feel less as though they would be cheating on their wives? Could they be rationalizing that sex with another man is unlike anything they could do with their wives and so it's not really hurting the wives like them finding another woman might? Could it be that the guys have always had latent tendencies in that direction and the lack of opportunities at home are forcing them to explore possibilities? Or is it that the guys are comfortable with who they are and are ready to explore something different? If it's none of these but rather simply guys realizing that they are interested in other men, why this age range? It's been my experience that for most, it's during the 50's. An occasional correspondent is younger or older than their 50's but most have been in that decade of age. Their reactions have been varied. Some have simply stumbled into the discovery accidentally in some group sex situation and discovered they enjoyed it. Others have realized they are turned on by pics of cocks and naked guys on sites like this one. Part of them are frightened by the discovery, wonder if they are "normal"; others actively seek the opportunity to play out the new discovery. Others are relieved to find out that they are not the only guy in his 50's to discover that he likes the idea of sex with other men. Most profess to have had a fully heterosexual life up to this point full of girlfriends and wives and kids and grandkids and yet something turns their attention to men, to wanting to touch and suck another man's cock. I wonder why?